do the things yourself

@vera0571 (165)
China
April 25, 2008 9:38am CST
from a child,parents and teachers told us that do our own thinngs by oueselies. but when i grow up, i find it's not the turth. people around, they also dislike doing things by themselives,and always shrink form the duty. do you come across this things,if yes,what will you do?
2 responses
tdh0218
@tdh0218 (163)
• China
25 Apr 08
i am so sorry that i do not know what "shrink from the duty " mean? but i may understand you. when i was a child ,my father told me that things about me that i should try mu best to do . because of my father,now i will do my best do everything. sometimes i may think that the thing i will do is diffucult,but i will do.since i know if i do not try,i could make it,then if i try,i have 50% ops....
vera0571
@vera0571 (165)
• China
25 Apr 08
thank you for your response and understanding. i think your father must be a great father.i also try to do things too.as you say,try,half to half chance;if not,the chance is 0.
yangyuexin
@yangyuexin (2)
• China
25 Apr 08
we can not reckon on other people too much.i do own things by myself mostly.i won't ask help facilely from others.i think that is right.