breaking up with someone, How can you take it ?????

i have broken up with someone, and sadly though, i have actually moved on quite fast with the last break up that i had. i guess even before we broke up, i have already lost the love i have for him.

it was hard to break up with someone I was dating for a while, but I took some time to get over the shock of having broken up with someone and moved on.

It really depend on the circumstances. I strongly feel that you should break up with a person as soon as you really feel that you dont want to be with someone. Not to say to rush into it but really think about for a while and if you are sure do it ASAP don't prolong it because the longer you wait the harder it is going to be. If you are afraid of hurting the person, don't be because the sooner you do it the better. You are going to hurt them reguardless but think of it that this way the sooner you do it the sooner they can get over it. Also the longer you wait is hurting them more because it was not fair for them to be in a relationship with a person who is living a lie.

I find it easy to move on. If someone doesn't want me any more then I am happier knowing than being with them and not knowing. I know that despite the good times I had with them, we will have split up because of the bad times and I would rather end it with the happy memories in mind rather than them being swamped with a lifetime of bad memories. I have a lot more years to have more good times with someone else.