what will you do

i will do nothing coz she is married. in the particular situation, i believe that anything i do to follow up my felling will hurt everyone.

Life just has to go on. You can't change what is in the past. Not unless you want it to be that way. Accept what can't be changed and just move on....

You need to stay away from her! Think of your family, and hers! Unfaithfulness rips families apart and causes so much heartache. And children suffer the most - they have a way of internalizing and making these situations their fault in their minds. Plus you will be setting a horrible example that will affect the way they deal with their own relationships for the rest of their lives. Things cool between husband and wife and this is nornal - marriage takes work! Talk to your wife and try to kick start things. If there is something missing in your relationship in your relationship with your wife, try to fix it! Start having heart to heart talks and MAKE yourselves get back onto the same wavelength. Good luck!

what u will do? is to fix and settle what u need to settle with....u know what is right and wrong, so dont make the wrong one right, bcuz as u said u both have family.... be a family man for your family... correck your mistake. and move on.

I think extramarital affair is illegal and illogical. You feel ashamed in you own eyes. You will always be worried about how to conceal this fact from your spouse. Your married life will become a sin. Furthermore, You cant pay attention to a single person when you love two at a time. So, I would alway try to avoid such an outcome.

what is not meant to be is not meant to be. what is meant to be is meant to be. go on with your life... with your family.

You have mentioned that you loved the woman, did she also reciprocate the feeling? Did you ever express your love to her or to each other? If yes, what was her reaction? I think that you must move on, and if there had been a friendship, let it remain, if not well you do have your own family, your own life to live with them. All the best!

if i found out that i have fallen in love with a married woman, i would just consider her as a friend and life will go on as it is. i don't want to mess up with somebody else's life specially with a married woman. no matter how hard and deep my feelings with this woman, i would not be so stupid to pursue that love and destroy somebody's life and family. i could not live on thinking i have destroyed someone's life and family. my conscience will hunt me for the rest of my life. if there is an opportunity for me to show my love for her like say she divorces her husband, then i would be willing to help her out and win out her heart is she is still willing to accept someone in her life.

I fell in love with someone when I was married. It was just infatuation (a crush) although at the time I was ready to run off with him had he asked! However, I just kept it on a friendship level because I was married and my husband never knew about it. Later, after 19 years of marriage, he left me for his high school girlfriend. It hurt me horribly and the kids will never be the same, their world split apart in an instant. You took your vows and promised to love her. You will fall in and out of love with her and perhaps with others during your lifetime but you are committed to her. Handle it the mature and responsible way and honor the commitment you made to your wife. Besides, what you think is love is many times just a temporary crush and may be due to strain in your marriage or your work. I hope it turns out well for you.

Oh that is hard but you need to go on with your life. Maybe, she is not meant for you and you need to think you both have family that you will hurt ifyou continue that. Hope you will be fine. Take care~!

Passion will pass over. But a life is a life. I know it will make your heart hurt heavily, but as a husband, responsibility comes first. Remember what you promised on the wedding? Maybe, trying to recall the sweet memories of you and your wife will be better. Good luck.

Honestly? Do what I did and divorce your current wife, and run away with the new chick, whom I have been married to for 8 years now!

i think i will give up any ideas about this women .Everything is impossible unlsee the miracle happend.

i think you just have to avoid her. lots of persons other than you too are involved. i have been through that before but it's something coz it's still a gf-bf state. i know you will be yearning a lot about her but it's just in the first phase. sooner or later, you can get over it and will see that time heals. you should just appreciate what you have for now. have a date with your wife like you were before. go to movies, go out for a dinner, take walks, do morning exercises with her, dance with her, share jokes, and hug her a lot. and each night before you sleep, take some time to reflect about the comfort you're wife is giving you. and be thankful that even if you feel lonely, you still have her to comfort you through that difficult time.

When I was 20, my wife was busy with our four babies. I wandered. Between school, a couple of jobs, and screaming kids, it wasn't a happy time. So,I would spend more time away from the household and eventually started 'dating' a lab mate. Eventually, my wife found out -- it was terrible but she forgave me. I dropped the girl friend and everything was supposed to get back to normal. Unfortunately, shortly after that, the g/f announced to me she was pregnant. I thought I had been safe but it was proven it was mine after his birth. This, of course ruined my first marriage. I ended up not really liking that girl after all and we never did become friends again.