How do u treat someone u really don't like?
By ranki_wj
@ranki_wj (49)
China
April 26, 2008 2:00am CST
I'm an easygoing person, I have lots of friends. But there are also people around me that I don't really like. Some are hypocritical, some are completely faults-finders, and some always bully others, etc. I'm really sick of that sort of things, I feel suffered. I really don't know how to deal with them. They all looked normal but are really freaky inside!@@!
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7 responses
@BYOLA2871 (4371)
• South Africa
26 Apr 08
I agree that you canyt like everybody and even if you try some of these people will still piss you off ,what i normally do is to avoid any kind of arguement that will make me say things i should not say,if its to a person i dont really fancy and i also try to avoid serious or prolong tiem with such people,besides when its not avoidable to do that i simply tolerate and remain cool making sure i dont say so much
@BYOLA2871 (4371)
• South Africa
28 Apr 08
lucky you,just keep to those you like and avoid as much as you can the ones you dont like ahahahaah
@Elixiress (3878)
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27 Apr 08
I tend to just ignore the people that I don't like and don't do anything for them. If an argument happens and they are involved then I side with the other person.
@Naomi17 (624)
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26 Apr 08
I admit i try to avoid people i don't like! When i do meet them i am polite but find an excuse to leave.
Its a bit like going on a bus i always get a weirdo sit next to me but at least i can get of at my stop without feeling guily.
Bullies i can't stand and avoid them like the plague!
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
26 Apr 08
cold shoulders. i dont have a lot of friends. and when i dont like a person i show it. maybe that is bad but that is what i am. i make sure i dont go to places where i can see them or i just go another way if i see them coming. if my wife has a visitor i dont like i just go inside our room.
@wickedangel (1636)
• Dominican Republic
26 Apr 08
If I see someone bullying someone else then I tend to try and stand up for the person being bullied. I don't like to see that. If they are hypocritical then I ignore them, same with fault finders - they are not so perfect themselves! I certainly wouldn't have them amongst my friends.
Thanks for sharing this with us.
@busta1baby (1230)
• United States
27 Apr 08
i just dnt tlk to them...cuz if i do ill be a big bit**
@spoiled311 (5500)
• Philippines
26 Apr 08
oh that i am having difficulty with. especially that the person i don't like goes to the same church with me. i don't want to be a hypocrite, but there are really people that i cannot seem to like. then i realize, i can't like them because i can't accept them. i can't accept their uniqueness from myself.
so what i did is to first change my perspective and mindset about them. then i try to control my feelings especially if they are around. then eventually, i forced myself to be friendly to them, just so i can build the habit and to also discipline myself.
eventually, i got better. we really have to decide to like a person. if we won't make the decision, nothing will happen.
but honestly, up until now i have difficulty, especially if they show behaviors i don't like. but i always try to keep myselfin check.
good day! :-)