Do you always wait for the guy to make the first move?

@rombi001 (941)
April 26, 2008 6:06am CST
If you are attracted to someone would you show how you feel if you are unsure about how he feels or would you try to hide it and wait for him to make the first move?
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4 responses
chiyochan
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
26 Apr 08
yes. i always wait for the guys to do their first move. i am not the kind of woman / lady that gives hints to guys if i like them...
rombi001
@rombi001 (941)
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29 Apr 08
Well, I guess its kinda traditional for the guy to make the first move, but don't you think if you act like you are not interested or try to act normal around him then he might think that you don't really want to be more than friends??
Elixiress
@Elixiress (3878)
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26 Apr 08
I am willing to make the first move. I just don't like to come on too strong. Once the relationship has started then I let guys make the first move, such as saying "I love you" or turning the relationship into a physical one etc.
rombi001
@rombi001 (941)
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29 Apr 08
Thats fair enough.. I guess guys just need some clear hints that the girl is actually interested to be more than friends... After that it is quite easy to take over!!
xlinzixx
@xlinzixx (510)
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26 Apr 08
i always wait for the guy to make the first move just to make sure they definately like me.like last night i went on a date and he was a great guy and i was wanting to kiss him all night but i waited till he made the first move to kiss me at the end of the night lol. i have a fear of rejection hehehe
rombi001
@rombi001 (941)
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26 Apr 08
hmm, interesting... See guys get confused sometimes... If you act like you aren't interested just so you won't be rejected, then the guy will get the idea that you really aren't interested... But I guess it worked out quite well for you!
busta1baby
@busta1baby (1230)
• United States
27 Apr 08
no not all the time...