im a faithful wife..

confused me. - tell me..
Philippines
April 26, 2008 10:18am CST
My husband is in abroad for 9 mos. now..Last monday i talked to him on the phone telling him that my school grant me a scholarship for summer schooling.But he doesnt like it. He said that why should i do that where its time for me to relax instead(fyi..im a teacher)so when the time classes resume ill be ready then. What do u think i will do to convince my husband? Pls help..
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@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
26 Apr 08
Tell him how important it is for you. i think he will understand. he is a good husband. he wants you to have a rest. so, tell him that this will make you happy. I think he will understand.
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@newht351 (74)
• Malaysia
28 Apr 08
thats great! congratulations. not many person lucky like u.. for me, if thats what u really WANT,ur hubby should understand it.. at the other hand, u have to proove him that u can manage ur time well. so he wont be neglected.. i think, he's scared if u r too bz, then u'll neglect him..
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
26 Apr 08
I would do it and tell him that this is something you want to do and will make you a better teacher. He can't control whether or not you go, he is away and this is about your career. This has nothing to do with being a faithful wife.
@lonewolfnan (4366)
• Canada
26 Apr 08
Doesn't the fact that you WANT to do this and are willing to sacrifice to make it happen stress the importance of continuing your education is to you?That alone should "convince" him to let you attend.Of course,my thoughts of having to convince him (or anyone else) of ALLOWING you to do something constructive for you is also under question.I thought he would be proud of what you are doing?? Sometimes a woman has to do what a woman has to do. Good success with the summer schooling. And welcome to MyLot;the program that DOES pay its members.