How to choose?

I dont believe you can love two people at once its just too special to share with more than one person. If I had this happen and had to choose, I would probably top myself as I wouldnt know what to do and hurting one of them would kill me emotionally because by loving them you are too emotionally involved to just ditch and think oh well thats it.

I've been in more than one relationship but didn't love both...I think it's hard to actually be 'in love' with 2 people at one time...not impossible though

No, I've never been in more than one relationship at a time. I've always believed that a relationship should be exclusive. As for choosing, I believe that you should weigh carefully what you consider "love" to be. That should make your choice easier.