do you find it hard to tell your partner what you want to try etc

For me i like my gf to tell me what she like and i will do it to make she enjoy

It isn't hard for me at all I kind of find a way to get there without saying it because sometimes I don't know how to get things to sound right through word especially during the act but I always find ways to hint like moving his hands to certain places or turning over a certain way or bringing out a certain toy you know.

Yes. My husband and I have been together for 16 years now and married for 13 of them in July. I have a hard time telling him things like that because to me, it is very embarrassing and I do not want him to think I am nasty or something.

Ive been married for two years but we have been together for 8 years. Its kind of hard to tell him but I guess, after two years of getting married, I am more vocal now. Let him know that you want to try etc... Try to ask him or give him a hint. There will be days you want to play with him - then what that time comes, try hinting what you want to try and maybe he'll like it too.

you been married 12 yrs? you look too young to be married that long!

let in your mind, what you want to do with your partner, and don't tell him ahead of time. you can ask him what he wants to do with you, and you let him do it. later on, in the middle of your session, you can tell him what he wants, if he never ask. but you can still go on with what you want even without saying it. if he resist or ask you what you wanted to do, just tell him to shut up and just to your thing. you really don't have to say a word if we do that thing, anyway, our body talks already...

well I will say that it is hard to just come right out and say it at first. But me and my wife are very open to new ideas and allowing our fantasies to be met, to a degree. No others involved at all. But when it comes to asking her to try or let me try we will both openly say it and give it a try. It keeps the fires burning and I do mean very hot. It is good for the relationship to be able to be yourself and express yourself in whatever way you desire as long as you both can agree to it. I mean i would never try to talk her into doing something that I know she don't want to do. But you should try to be vocal and interact with each others fantasies.It's fun