Love is Blind

"Man with two wives tend to lie his two women; "But man with only one wife basically lie to himself", honestly i just heard those kind adagium. what does it mean in reality dear friend? how could man with only one wife basically lie to himself? i am getting curious to know more about this matter

You know, you seem to have two different idea in your post. But I will respond to both. First of all, you asked whether others believe that love is blind. Well, here's my answer to hat: Love is not blind, lovers can see but they just don't mind. Lovers see the flaws of each other, they see the bad and the good. But because of love, all those flaws are forgotten and accepted. They accept with open hearts that the person they love is far from being perfect, yet the love that doesn't dampen their love. In short and simple language, I do not believe that love is blind. Second, you said that it is ok for a man to have many wives. It is ok in religions and customs that permit such practices. But for a lot of women, being the only one is what matters most. You see, I'm christian and I absolutely abhor multiple marriages. My religion values the sanctity of marriage and being married to only one person and he/she can only remarry if the spouse has passed away or if they are permitted to be marry again.

Well people always say when you are in love everything is sweet and nice yea

Yeah i agree iwth you in some ways. I do know few ppl who did a second marriage, and interestingly, it is for money! The man is hugely rich and she is happy with money only, he stays half of the time with her and half of the time woth the other wife. I just asked one, whom i know, is it okay that you share ur husband? And she replies, i donno, but he can give me what ever i want! May be, there r some ppl marrying for love a second time, but if its love there is gotta be jealousy and that family is never outta quarrels. I dont agree with what you said, its okay if he manages it properly. Manage what properly? How he love two poeple? If he does, then thats not love.

I don't believe that love is blind. Love doesn't blind our "eyes"; it gives us a better perception about the person or people whom we love. Love binds us with our sense of morality and it doesn't hurt others. We see the true person when we are in love. Love helps us to transcend the physical beauty and see the soul behind the person.

Well love is blind because when your in love you can't see the mistake of your partner, because your in love with her/him you will accept her/him shortcomings... But in the other way around I don't think it is fair for us woman when your husband is having an affair with the other woman, for me love or "marriage" is just for the two people in love isn't? If you don't love your partner anymore then leave her/him, and that is the only time that you look for another....