You are his Second choice.
By ozzeth
@ozzeth (940)
Philippines
April 28, 2008 1:00am CST
How do you feel when someone whom you love made you only his second choice? How do you accept the fact that he chose you knowing that his first choice rejected him? Will you show up your pride and reject him also? Or you will follow what your heart says?What if his first choice will realized and will come back to him and accept his love? What are your fears on this situations? Is this situation could be consider so complicated? Wow! lots of questions...
You love this person and he knows about it. But you know that he is in love with someone else. He take more time and effort to his first choice but he still sweet and befriend with you. His first choice don't like him and then later on rejected and busted him. He told you about it and you know he madly in love with that girl. He cried to you and shared his pain and sorrows.
In the next morning, You are surprised when you received a bunch of roses from him and with note.."Can you be my girlfriend?" Gosh! whats this? The guys knew that you have a feeling with him and you know too that he just being rejected to hi first choice. What will you do? Will you accept him as your boyfriend?
He is vocal that he is not sure of his feeling for you..His heart is still belong to his first choice. Will you try to work it out? Will you take the risk? What if you just wake up and then realized that he is everything for you? Then he just realized that he can't love you the way you love him?
2 responses
@angepange (123)
• Australia
28 Apr 08
oooh thats a tough one. on one hand, he could be the one for you, often people dont realise what they want is staring them right in the face, until bang, it hits them, maybe he has realised you are the one for him. on the other hand, playing second fiddle to someone he wants and will always want is no way to live your life.especially if she decides she wants him all of a sudden when you take up his offer. this is tricky and could cause you much heartache, thats what love is though right. im a believer of 'its better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all' - good luck to you
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
1 May 08
that situation really happened on me and my present bf. i say that i give him a chance knowing that his first choice has rejected him because his first choice was not yet ready to have a relation again and the girl told him that she would just accept some suitors after she graduated from college then of course the next thing that happened was i was the one that's been courting by him. i feel so happy and kinda worried that time. happy because he's my crush even though i have a bf that time and good thing that my 1st ex and i just broke up before he courts me then worried because he might just leave me once he find out that his first choice has already graduated from college and his parents might also won't accept me as his gf because they're chinese and i'm a filipino-spanish by blood so we just hide it to his friends.
well his first choice had already graduated from college this march 2008 and i'm relieved and very happy that we're still together and the only thing that i'm worried was about his parents if they found out about us but i'm hoping and i still trust him that he would fight for me no matter what happens. amen! hallelujah! 
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