Having someone to fill the void

@uiwwitch (892)
United States
April 28, 2008 5:48am CST
My Dad and I were recently talking about heartbreaks and losing someone. He said that having someone to fill the void makes moving on easier. I wondered how soon should we find "someone" to fill that void, or if we have to deliberately seek this person out to make things easier. Wouldn't that amount to taking advantage of this person? Like a rebound thing? What if you never sought this person out? Would that be a better situation considering you're still using him/her to fill the void? I'd love to read your thoughts on this. Thanks!
2 responses
subha12
@subha12 (18441)
• India
28 Apr 08
i think its really nice to have the void filled up. but it always not happen as thought of. also in some cases its rebound relationship. it is actually not true feelings but at that you want a shoulder to keep head upon.
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uiwwitch
@uiwwitch (892)
• United States
29 Apr 08
That's true, and I did not think that was right. Thanks.
danzer
@danzer (2723)
• Philippines
28 Apr 08
Oh how romantic your topic is. I feel the electricity that goes on when speaking about love, filling the void, heartaches. How soon would you find someone to fill the void depends how you intend it to be. Do you intend that someone just to fill the void, or you need someone to love and to love you in return? Using someone just for you to forget someone might have some consequences, so dig deep into your heart and find out what you really need. Oh, but you have your own decisions. I'm just giving some probable alternatives!
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uiwwitch
@uiwwitch (892)
• United States
29 Apr 08
thanks!