if you are sad, who comes to your mind first?

China
April 29, 2008 1:55am CST
in life, there are more sorrows than happiness. there are too many people that you meet that you can share your happiness with, not necessarily your lover. but in sadness, there are not many people willing to share your burden with you. if you are willing to tell someone your sadness, i am sure that person has got to be someone close and an understanding person to you.
3 responses
@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
30 Apr 08
When I am sad and feeling dow, the first person that comes to my mind is my oldest sister. She is my best friend. I hate it that she moved away 2 years ago.So now we talk on the phone every day. When I am down, it is her that I call on. She knows how to make me feel better.
• China
4 May 08
You are so lucky, you can talk to your sister when you feel sad. For me, when i feel no good, the first person that comes to my mind is my beloved, i would like to meet her at once and take her to a silent place, then we will talk about everying until i feel better. Hohohoho
• India
5 May 08
For me, its my friend, she is my closest friend, and i hear solutions from her which work so well. I also share it with my younger sis, but now-a-days, shez not so in contact with me, so in phone or net, we cant share everything.
@pree_6 (434)
• India
4 May 08
for me it is my mom..my mom and me are like friends..be it happiness or sadness i share it with my mom...she knows me to calm down and will say some comforting words which soothens my mind...those words will give me the courage and i will overcome my sadness... the person whom i will blame will be god..if things does not happen in my favour i will definitely keep shouting about god..i believe its god who makes us face both happiness and sadness in life... nice discussion..good day..