You are my Man
By bonansa2008
@bonansa2008 (219)
Indonesia
April 29, 2008 2:11am CST
I was so surprised when she said, "you are my man." Really? I told her. "Yes, if you have not mind," she explained futher. I dont know at all what commitment does she expect from my part. She is still so young, while I feel I am too old for her. "Listern, lady, you are still so young, your future is lay ahead," I told her. But she told me it is ok, you can wait for me untill I finish my high school education. I myself am not sure whether this kind of relationship could go lasting. She is so young, she needs more time before get matured to know the whole life. "Do you want me to go?" she warned me one day, when I told her that she has a very bright future, so she had to grab her wildest dream for her life. Actually I wish she focuses on her youthful life, a colourful life that she deserves to enjoy. I wish her one day she will find a right man. Coz she deserved to have a better man. I know she can have it.
3 responses
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
30 Apr 08
I'm not sure of the circumstances like the age difference, but if she is in high school and you are not, I think it's safe to say you did the right thing by telling her to search her future and not put a stake in you sad to say.
@bonansa2008 (219)
• Indonesia
1 May 08
Yess! I wish she could understand my point, but it seems I need more times before she could think rationally. She is still so young and her future must be secured well. I try to explain it to her frequently. But her answer makes me worry: "You will see what kind of girl I am...."
@plumwish07 (4057)
• Indonesia
29 Apr 08
honestly i don't have any idea about your relationship with her but something that i notice in here that this girl is crush on you, cause what i read from your story, she really wants to make you as her man
but if you said that she will be better to find another and you are sure that she will find it someday, then i think you have some reqaaon behind@bonansa2008 (219)
• Indonesia
30 Apr 08
I did some favors for her, such as, allow her to speak-up her sadness, worries,personal problem, bad relation with parents. Sometimes she cannot hold her grief while explaining her problem. When this happen, she cannot do anything else but cry.....
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
6 May 08
You did the right thing, i think she is too young for you. So just train her to focus mainly on her future and that she can be happy later on. At that age, girls can be really serious for minor things, so you have to go slow, but be firm about your decision.
