Do you believe your bf/gf/wife/husband?
By leha1512
@leha1512 (81)
Brunei Darussalam
April 30, 2008 1:56am CST
Its hard for to believe my partner and our relation never last long maybe because I dont't trust them. I do understand in the great relationship they must trust and believe each other. But the point is I don't want to cry anymore. I don't want to feel sad anymore. How about you guys, do you believe your partner?
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7 responses
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
30 Apr 08
i believe / i would believe him if there is anything that i have doubts, i will clear it out with him because it is really important that trust is present in any relationship. how can you make your relationship work if you do not trust the person even a bit??
if you dont mind, why do you not trust your partner? did he did something wrong or has lied to you several times that whatever he is telling you seemed all too "fabricated"??
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@leha1512 (81)
• Brunei Darussalam
30 Apr 08
Maybe because of my X-Husband, I trust him. He leave me after that for 2 years wit no reason, just like that.He slept with other girl, and but still tell me that he loves me. Maybe because of that. Trauma. Easily for me to get angry if my partner try to explain something. Or dont know
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@frostmourne (62)
• China
30 Apr 08
Surely i believe my girlfriend.If we donot trust each other,we wouldn't be together.
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@rajikoshy (741)
• India
30 Apr 08
Realation ship is based on faith.
if there is no faith or trust
such relationship does not continue.
i trust my wife, have faith in her.
and she does the same, so i dont do any thing that will hurt her or bring out any distrust within us. so life goes on happily.
@sunshinelady (7609)
• United States
30 Apr 08
I do believe my husband. That is one of the most important things in a relationship. At some point if you want a good relationship you have to step up and be willing to trust your partner. I know that a person takes the risk of being hurt but you also run the risk of finding a good and solid relationship. I have been married for 35 years and trust my partner much.
@leha1512 (81)
• Brunei Darussalam
30 Apr 08
That's so great. I am happy to hear that. Because, before this I love and trust my husband soooo much. But he betrayed me... he betrayed my love. It makes me so lost n I could not explain. He leave me for 2 years without a reason. I just hang up just like that, and lost nearly die. Maybe I got trauma with it. He leave me alone during my third pregnancy. If I got I a new guy should I trust them fully?
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@sunshinelady (7609)
• United States
30 Apr 08
Trust is earned. So starting a relationship up with a guy should be taken slowly. Learn about him and make sure he s who he says he is and who you think he is. You have been hurt once and badly. Just don't let yourself get down on love. It is out there. You just have to be careful who you choose to be around. Keep the faith and keep your chin up. It sounds like you are pretty down in the dumps and with good cause to be.
@banunche (256)
• Philippines
30 Apr 08
trust and communication is important in a relationship. =) if the two of you really love each other, then you would not have any reason to lie to each other. its really hard to believe in your partner especially when your past relationship does not end up well.
personally, i believe to my boyfriend. maybe its just me being paranoid and thinking too much stuffs. =)
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@rahuldhiman (130)
• India
30 Apr 08
trust is the base or backbone of such type of relationship , ya some time its difficalt but its true if u want a long &healdy relationship then trust is must
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
1 May 08
I understand, can you try this even though it sounds odd to us. Admit your weaknesses by overcoming your fear of being rejected. Try to release them. If not, your arcane will be influenced by the feeling of being rejected which is very dangerous for your relationship. I'd been there too....
