will you be mad if your plans were changed
By Christianaxi
@Christianaxi (68)
May 1, 2008 2:34am CST
Today is 1st May,I should have already been in the park and enjoying myself,but now the only thing I can do is to sit before my PC and write this.
My classmate and I planned to go outside or do some shopping today but for some reason we canceled it.
In fact,she doesn't want to go,but I still want to.I'm afraid that if we go as we have planned,she wouldnot feel happy so I give up,but now I feel unhappy.
I'm the kind of person who always want to do things as I've planned
The last thing I want to do is to change my plan.
Will you be mad if someone changed your plan
If such things happen to you,what would you do
4 responses
@catmint (628)
• Singapore
1 May 08
I was done in by a friend many years ago. We decided to go traveling together and she did not say a word against it till the day we were suppose to purchase the airtickets. I was pretty miffed with the nonchalant way she said she isn't going, even went on to say that how would she know that I am serious about it.
I bang the phone down on her, went out, got myself a ticket and went traveling alone.
We are still friends to this day but she doesn't change any plans she makes with me any more, she had learnt that spoiling my plans doesn't hurt me abit.
Some people are evil like that, they love to spoil other people's plans just for the sake of seeing them squirm. I don't like to give this kind of people the pleasure. Then there are others who cancelled for reasons they can't help, there really isn't anything anyone can do.
If I were you, I will go shopping alone. Why allow your classmate to mar your day?
@Christianaxi (68)
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1 May 08
Yeah ,she treated me like that,but I donot think she is evil,maybe she is somebody who donot care about such things
I regard her as my best friend.
But still I will take your advice and I planned to go shopping tomorrow on my own,
Thank you very much
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
1 May 08
i will not be mad, i will just feel a little disappointed and sad of course if my plan will not push through. i have always loved planning to go with friends and if they will cancel it at the time where i am really excited.. that would make me feel bad.
@Christianaxi (68)
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1 May 08
It looks that you are a good tempered person,I have been always hope that I can control my temper well,but it's a hard thing.
Thanks for responding
@crackhead (1826)
• India
4 May 08
Some times i am Stupid and force my plans, i am more a stubborn person. I really feel bad if the plans get cancelled and that is some thing which we dont expect. If there is some important reason why they are cancelled i might not feel bad instead will get along.
Last year We planned a get together and there was a bomb blast in our city, we had to cancel it. After few hours i was very uneasy and checked the news and stuff to make sure that its not that harmful to roam over the streets. Then i called all my friends to my place and we did celebrate the function just very near to my place. I really dont want to change my plans.
