Unfriendly Circumstances
By bonansa2008
@bonansa2008 (219)
Indonesia
May 1, 2008 6:36am CST
I need your advice, urgently. I am part of a small community in an office. There are about ten persons who accupy the same space. Actually I wish I could tolerate everything they say, or they do. But from day to day, I cannot hold on. They frequently cross the limits, and it makes me upset, or even get annoyed. I do understand that nobody is allowed to get clashed physically during working hours. But I am affraid I cannot tolerate them anymore. What have I to do? Just keep silent? Or what? What is actually their intention by doing such unfriendly thing?
2 responses
@ruby222 (4847)
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2 May 08
I think that it sounds as though they are trying to make you lose your rag..but the only way you will get the better of these bullies is to ignore them...if you rise to the bait and fall out with them ..they will have won...so hold onto your cool...turn the other way and just simply ignore them...they will soon realise that they arent getting anywhere by doing it.
@plumwish07 (4057)
• Indonesia
2 May 08
i am sorry to hear the situation that you faced in your office at this moment. but believe me, show them your unpatient feeling will make you worse than them.
i know its hard to handle this situation cause by their words, they already hurted our dignity but maintain it phisically, also not a good way to do.
why don't you try to avoid them? or just ignore what kind words that they said to you. just do your work best and it can show to them that you are not emotional person and good character. by passed of time, they will change for you.
it just my advise whether you gonna take it or not, it will be on your hands