not again

wow ur so rite...but its just hard cuz like me and him we tlk every nite b4 i go to bed and im just use to it so i guess its just difficult cuz im not use to not tlk n to him u kno...so its just hard thats all and now tonite makes 48 hrs so its even harder on me to deal

I, like you love the man in my life. We have been together for nearly 11 years and married for nearly 9 years. We enjoy each others company and even still talk...nearly every day even. I travel as part of my job. I work sometimes 12, sometimes 14 hours per day. He works off shifts and is also a musician which means he is often gone in the evenings at gigs. He also golfs, which means he often goes off to play after work not coming home till the sun goes done. I don't play golf. I don't like hanging at bars. Just not my thing. We simply have some things not in common. It is ok we have lots of things in common. We get each other for one. We have common dreams. We have common morals. We have common ethics. We have common desires in life. We like each other a great deal. We get that there are times when at the end of the day, especially when I am traveling we just won't catch up with each other....it is ok. One of us will leave a message. The problem is, and I am really sorry if this hurts your feelings, you are so young. You are having a baby and you are barely a grown up your self. Your hormones are out of whack and you haven't figured out your personal emotions yet. I don't know how old your man is but he might just be feeling a bit of pressure also. I don't mean to make you feel bad, really I don't. But lighten up a bit. Give yourself and him some room to breath. You both are going to need to figure this out and fast. If you are going to be parents soon you will need to figure out how to be together and apart without spinning out of control. You are going to have to figure out how to be parents, how to be mature adults and emotional stable ones at that for the child that you are bringing into the world.