My cat is in love and ....

i think you should have some water to trow to the cats that invate your garden. after tat they wont come back!

Haha - what a tart! They are funny when they are in season. Definitly a one track mind. Like some humans I know!!

Hey, did noone ever tell you that being in love was hard?! But, I'm afraid to say, that if you delayed the spaying then you have no-one but yourself to blame for the tomcats keeping you awake all night =P Your own tom cat is probably wondering what the hell has got into his friend. My dogs are brother and sister so it's doubly important that we keep them apart when she's on heat. We do, but sometimes I don't know why we bother. He's not the brightest of dogs where ladies are concerned and he looks quite positivly terrified where she's concerned! My cats, well I had them 'done' as soon as I was able!

wow. there is a terrible cat overpopulation. i guess if you just let her have one litter and then have her spayed o.k. but yes cats are promiscuous and very very loud, and they will mate even in pouring rain. i've seen it. yes they will attract males from many miles around and they are loud too. they fight and the stronger ones get to mate with her. sometimes 2 or three of them. after wards she'll calm down. but she is left with a lot of hard work after she gives birth, so i hope you'll help her.the males just go on their merry way. my female cat has a boyfriend. she is spayed though. he's too dumb to realize that she's a spay. your little male is going to start catting around really soon. and yes he knows what's happening. at 5 months old they start to roam and spray. and fight. have him nuetered when he is 1 year old. or he will look like a girl. but please chop off those balls because there is a terrible cat overpopulation problem, at least here in calif. then calif. is a whole giant problem, the people are really mean. btw it is now cat season, there are cats screaming everywhere, and roaming, and crossing streets, and fighting, they're looking to mate. they really arne't in love. they just want to mate really bad. afterwards. the father, unless he's also your cat, will just take off, and diss his mate. just like in the human world. your cat will give birth in 2 months. make sure she has a nice queening box. sometimes when they are in heat, they don't even eat at all and of course they ignore you, they roll around on the ground and scream until they get pregnant. it scared me the first time it happened. i called the vet . i was 13, and the whole office was laughing at me, i said my kitty is sick, she's screaming and rolling around and she won't eat and making horrible noise, they laughed and laughed, and said "honey your cat is in heat" i was really embarrassed.

Sounds like she is in heat!!! More than likely if you have a lot of toms hanging around you will have some cute little kitties in a couple of months.