how do you know when your not in love anymore

did the fights started during your pregnancy...coz you know, the stress of being pregnant and all..and now taking care of a baby is really a handful...it might be the hormones also... try to have a time for yourself, alone..think about how it all started and what you think is causing it...look for the root cause...and when you think you have an idea or you really know the answer, sit down with your partner and talk it over..just the two of you..do it in a place where there are people, just so would be embarassed to shout at each other

yes, children do add a lot of stress on a relationship. I have been with my guy 7 years, and we have 3 kids. I rarely see him, because he has begun working on a restorative project with an old car. But when I do we are constantly at each others throats. I suggest, sitting down by yourself, and asking yourself, where all of your anger is coming from, is there something you feel you need and or are missing from your relationship? Do you feel under appreciated? and ask him to do the same, and then sit down alone, and calmly and try to figure it out together., After all, you are a team, and these things need to be worked through by both parties and talking it through helps to make sure you are on the same page and still want the same things. =)

Children add a lot of stress to a relationship. Perhaps you should seek councelling. You do have a child to think about, and she would prefer mom and dad stay together and work it out.