The wrongful accusation?

the only ones to blame is ourselves because we did not make an "excessive" and exhaustible" effort to make it work. we usually end up fighting to the point that we bring up each others faults and past activities trying to blame each other, it is a vicious cycle. we all have imperfections in our relationships. i try to focus on the issue if ever me and my partner have an argument, it is os hard to talk and converse if we fight.

They are not solely responsible, but do share some of the blame.. It is a two-way street and all involved usually share the blame.. But there are many occasions where the wife or husband is completley blameless, they are just married to a philanderer and nothing is going to stop the fooling around.. I couldn't run mine off if I used a stick, we have been around each other too long.. We never had it made from day one, but we have worked through any and all problems to come to a comclusion about the problem..

mmmhh, i just faced this situation and i just back with my husband few months ago. no, definetely both of us don't blame on third person between us but more about our selves, why its happened. we evaluate each other what kind thing which make third person able to exist in our marriage life

I suppose while referring to the other person, you are referring to the 'third person' in a married couple's life. Y0u see, it is a nutaral human tendency to put the blame on others, whatever may have happened with him. One finds it always convenient to put the blame on others. However, if you see the any situation in our life from impartial angle, we are responsible for everything which happens in our life. Be it a love affair, be it our marriage, be it break up in any kind of relationship. It requies two to make tange and for clapping two hands are reuired, so we must also share the blame if any relationship comes to an end in our life. I have not faced any break up in my life, I do not believe in breaking relationship rather I believe in maintaining them.

When a relationship breaks down, we all want to point fingers. Noone likes thinking they were responsible for breaking the covenant of marrige. Even though I was justified in getting divorced, I also knew I was partly to blame. It's never one person's fault, just like noone can be completely horrible or wonderfully perfect. We all have a light and dark side. When couples break up, we see all the facets of our personalities exposed. I tried to get my ex into counseling to help him. It might sound weird, but I knew he needed help with some emotional problems, or he wouldn't have treated me the way he did. I explained the marriage could not be saved, but I wanted the best for him. We ended our marriage through mediation and I never forgot these words. The mediator told us: ' A good settlement is when both parties walk away equally dissatisfied.' I think that matches the way broken relationships come down to if we're honest. It takes two people to break it.

If your partner cheats and leaves to be with the person they cheated with then they alone are to fault, they made the choice to cheat and break up a relationship. The person they cheated with ok so maybe their morals need a look at for sleeping with a married person but if they are single ultimatley they can see who they like, the married person cant. Yes sometimes you should evaluate the relationship incase there was a prblem there but even then its still the cheaters fault they chose to do that instead of being adult and trying to fix the problem again their fault!