Can a house dislike the people who live in it?

Hi, I have read all the responses so far and you have been given some really good advice here. I am sorry to hear that you feel uncomfortable in your own home. I have recently experienced an unease here at my home where I have a feeling of being watched and a fair amount of other activity too. I have sought advice and Tessah was extremely helpful over another issue that I was experiencing. I didn't choose my house, I was housed but if I were able to have a choice I would definately find out the real reasons for it being sold for example if the previous residents werehaving relationship problems if house not cleansed of their energy it could start affecting your own, or if they struggled financially, same scenario. This is only my opinion though. I remember years ago when I was househunting for a house with my husband at the time I went into one house with the estate agent and felt immediately unwelcome and I just came out with that the lady didn't want us to buy it. My husband elbowed me and told me to shut up but the estate agent sided with me and said no she doesn't seem to want families with small children to buy for some reason. That shut my husband up. LOL. I really hope you get yours cleansed and sorted so that you will be able to enjoy. I don't think I'd like the idea of someone farting and brushing past the bed! Ellie :D

There's a lot of reasons why your house can be seemingly "mean" to you; there can be things that need to be fixed internally like plumbing or insulation, or there could be spirits of people actually in the house. There are a few different types of spirits, some are good, some are annoying and a few are evil. It's possible to get rid of them, but i think it would be best to consult a psychic or some one who nows a lot about houses like a carpenter or plumber to see if you can debunk you problem. :]

Honey anything is possible! I know though that in my living room it is always colder inside than out - sometimes even with the heating on yet I do not feel uncomfortable so maybe it is different altogeher. Have you thought of speaking to a priest or minister as I know that they sometimes do this type of cleansing! I do hope that you get the problem sorted out so you can live happily and comfortably in your own home! xxx

I would guess the last occupants left behind some negative energy. Or, maybe something bad happened there and the souls involved remain attached for reasons unknown. I've lived in houses where I know I'm considered an ememy or an interloper. I know the emotions of the people before me are lingering in certain rooms, and I dread going in there. I know how I cleared things up, but it's kind of weird to talk about it here. It has to do with a combination of crystals, rearrangement of furniture, candles, spoken words, blessings, asking the presence to move on and let me live there in peace. Sometimes the presence is so strong, I bring things from nature into the house. Fresh dirt works, it indicates new growth. There are things you can find that a spirit will attach to, rather than stay in the house from their past. Okay, this is getting way to weird, and because I can't give you exact details, I might not be helping at all!

objects hold the energy thats been infused into them.. so it is quite possible that yer house feels icky if the people who lived there before you werent very nice people that housed lots of negative energies. you can try cleansing the entire perimeter and each room individually. sage works well.. so does just regular cleaning with the intent of removing all negativity as you remove the dust thats cluttered up. the house i live in was so terrible before that itd make me feel ill. my husband and i have stated redoing the entire place and making it "ours" and as each room is done.. we do the sage thing, and the atmosphere in the room changes dramatically. if this doesnt do the trick, you might have an inhabitant that you really dont want to be there anymore.. rid it, and recleanse. remind whatever is there that it is YOUR house now, not theres, and they/it/whatever doesnt belong there. if none of these suggestions work.. gimme a hollar, i might be able to assist further. good luck

I have seen similiar things on tv, like on discovery channel. They would look back into the history of the house, or possibly even the history of the land the house sits on. In most every case, the house was cleansed so to speak. They usually started by hiring someone involved with paranormal activity, usually more specifically psychic abilities to check the house. This may or may not help, but i wish you the best of luck with your house.

If you believe in it then it is possible to have a house cleansing. You can find people on the net that specialize in this. Homes with cellars will tend to have this coldness, damp basements etc will do it as well.

It is obvious you love your house and are determined to live in it no matter what. Perhaps you just need to renovate it a little to make it livable. Ask an architect or some other professional in the field to have a look at it and check if the plumbing, heating, and so on needs to be changed. If you suspect ghosts, a psychic or a minister might be able to help you. If the uncomfortable feelings still do not go, it is better to leave the house and find something comfortable to live in. Cheers and happy Mylotting

Hi gemini_rose! I have heard so much about this kind of circumstances and personally, I have a gut feeling that our old house has never liked us too. We have this old house that belongs to my father. I grew up there but since we have moved there, a lot of misfortunes and bad things have been happening to us. I have personally experienced smelling candles and flowers when we are all in the living room or when I am alone on the 2nd floor of our home. I will hear footsteps and people who passes by our house says that they see an old tall man always walking in our front yard. We have a prayer vigil regularly in our house and we have it even blessed by a priest but nothing seems to work. We still suffer misfortunes. I wish to move my father to another place but he does not want to. I even asked him that he sells the house but he won't hear it. He does not believe that it is the house that made us suffer. I just also wish that our bad luck will stop coming. I heard that there are people who can drive bad spirits away in the house but I can't afford their services. I am just praying that soon it will be over. Just my thoughts dear friend. Take care and have a nice day!

I simply am not sure but we moved into a house that had many odd things happen and am not sure if it was the house or just the circumstaces in our life right then. Doors would fly shut for no reason. drawers would pop out for no reason. a knife'flew across the room. venetion blinds would suddenly go up. At this time my husband was diagnosed with cancer of the colon. He had to have a colostomy done. my son was about seven and i think he was really worried about my husband.Rooms in our house would be freezing when it was ninty. All these weird things only happened when my son was at home. and they all stopped when my husband came home from the hospital. From all I have read this was the work of a poltergeist. and would not happen but where a teenager was who was troubled about something

yeah, i guess it can...when the house starts to deteriorate without any cause or reason..maybe its because the house doesn't like the people living in it.

If you hear geeeeet oooooout I would leave pronto.

I do not think that a HOUSE can dislike the people, but entities can. Maybe get an expert to find out what is in the house. Take a dominant attitude in your house. It is your house. The cold may be a spirit drawing from the energy. I am not religious, but maybe a religious cleansing, if you believe.

its not the house that hates you its called an imprint someething really bad happened there before and it left its energy the house keeps playing the bad event over and over again and you start to see and hear strange things

hmm... some people use blessed salt in areas near the home, holy water in doorways, smudging with sage to cleanse the home and even the blessing of a priest to purify the home... All of these have been known to work.