Children withoute marriage....
By tundike
@tundike (986)
Romania
13 responses
@queenyesi (577)
• United States
1 Nov 06
What exactly is your question. I have 2 children by the same man and we are together still. We both feel that we are doing fine. Why get married. It works for us. What is marriage any way. A piece of paper? You share a last name.
@NJRACHELLE (12)
• United States
5 Nov 06
I have a son with my current boyfriend and I want to get married but he is a little aprehendsive. My son is still too young to know that mommy and daddy aren't married, but I would like us to be a real family(papers and all).
@dreamsncharms (1340)
• United States
1 Nov 06
It happens. I had a child without being married and she is just fine :) I am married right now though.
@jade17901 (597)
• United States
11 Nov 06
I wouldnt recommend it, but its not wrong! As long as both the parents are mature and respociable the child could have a great life. Im not married, and have a son with my ex. Now that my ex and I are not together we get along better and are close friends and my son enjoys that
@laciesdaddy (10)
• Canada
5 Nov 06
Well I'm currently having a child with my Girl friend and we are not married or even engaged. I'm ok with it and know that even if her and I don't last we both will be there for the baby no matter what. Its just how we are.
@karanbhutani (16)
• India
5 Nov 06
children without marriage according to me is wrong. What if 2 persons got separated.
@kesfylstra (1868)
• United States
5 Nov 06
I think marriage is an ideal situation for a child to be raised in, but only if that marriage, and family situation, is healthy. We had our daughter before we were married, and it was hard, especially because I had to go live with my parents while he finished school three states away. I very much prefer us all being together, and knowing it is strong and permanent.
@Raissa1967 (801)
• Netherlands
5 Nov 06
That is a thing that's up to the persons themselfs. When you want a kid but don't want a second person involved it may be the best solution for you. It is very hard to rase kids on your own.
@divir_vij (1591)
• India
5 Nov 06
There is no harm in it but in the case when there is a separation then there is lots of stress on the mind of the young kid. which seldom leads to complications
@bdipanjan22 (215)
• India
5 Nov 06
well if the parents are ok with the idea and the society doesn't fuss,for in my country people would fuss so much thatfor the childs sake they better get married,i don't see a problem to this..