why i have no lover?

China
May 5, 2008 8:07am CST
I'm 30 years old, but i have no girl friend,so i feel lonely now. but why? Ever i missed many pretty girls for my overbearing,yes,i'm very regret it. now i know myself mostly and i know how to resolve it,i wish a new wanderful finale of my life.
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rsa101
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
6 May 08
Question is what made you stop pursuing the girls that attracted you. I am pretty sure there are many occasions that you felt attracted you from her. Change in your life is only determinable by you and the choices you make everyday. If you choose to be loveless because of the choices you make then you would be like that. Change that attitude questioning why but rather think what you want to have in your life. Have a wonderful life and soon you will get what you really want in life.
whitaker
@whitaker (12)
• China
6 May 08
i know the real reason,by bottling up my emotions,i depire myself of healthy outlet for my negative feelings.so i need some friendship that is an essential ingredient in the making of healthful and rewarding life. anyway ,thanks for you remind.
sophialin
@sophialin (2677)
• China
12 May 08
hi whitaker,it' a common phenomena in china,especially in modern cities nowadays.people tend to marriage later and later.as for you,my suggestion is you'd better take action positively and quickly once you have some feelings with a girl.after all,you are 30 years old and have to build a family.