Are you truly happy with the choices you've made?

It seems like you adjust well to change. THat is a good thing. I dont think we ever truly love our job, but as long as it is tolerable and you're good at it things can only get better. I hope your friend has a safe trip. You can get to know you a little bit better. Without your friend for a while, you may want to do things by yourself to get to know yourself a little bit better. Good Luck. dl

Thank you. I just have to think clearly and set my mind straight so that I can really decide if I still want to continue working in this company or if i will take another job for better opportunity. Have a great day!

Your story is very similar to mine. There have been times where I was unable to pay a bill because I had to buy food. I have heard all the advice and comments I need to hear. Everyone thinks that welfare and food pantries are the answer. NOT. I have gotten turned away due to the amount of money I made the year before or something else just as stupid. I dont look for help from society any more. Times are tough for everyone. SOme of us more than others. My friends today arent anything special. I dont have a real true best friend. I think peoples idea of friendship is very different from what I am looking for. I cant change the world. I can change myself and my surroundings. That's what I do now. I keep close to home, family, etc. I focus on me an my family. I dont allow people to interfere. I can actually say I am happy because I have taken my life back. I am in control. Try taking your life back. DOnt sweat things you can do nothing about. I know its hard to struggle. In the long run you'll be better off. Pay what you absolutely need. Most importantly dont be so hard on yourself. You're only human. YOU CAN DO IT! If you need to talk, I am just a PM away. dl

I dont necessarily think friends are the answer. At least for me. I seem to get the most misery from friends. Be careful when choosing who to let in to your circle. Sometimes friends take your kindness to be a weakness. Watch your back my friend. Now that we have children, friends dont seem that important anymore. I just keep every incident clear in my head so when my daughter goes thru something, I can offer her my best advice. Good Luck on your search. dl

You have a great outlook on life. In fact, I wish I was more like you. I havent had a bad life. I just feel like everytime I succeed something takes me back. Maybe thats how it works in life. I guess only God knows for sure. I do try to do the best with what I have. I try to remain positive for my children. I am very happy with the life I have and whom I share it with. I just feel that my expectations of people arent that high and no matter what I keep getting disappointed. In every thing there is a life lesson learned. Good luck dl

you know what? As long as you have a dream to strive for your life has meaning. Dont worry about all the little stuff. Keep pursuing your dream as if nothing else matters. I am sorry you had so many tears in your life. Tears have made me stronger. Maybe this will be the same for you. You have a lot to look forward to. THats enough to keep you happy for a while. I hope you get what you wish for. You sound like someone who needs to work with people. Good luck. dl

Keep your head up. Remember that nothing lasts forever. Sometimes I think we are our own worst enemies. You can only do what you are able to. Do not struggle trying to achieve things you know are impossible. Focus on the things you know are within your grasp. I try to set goals that I know I can obtain. That way I lighten the load as far as regret is concerned. Dont be too hard on yourself. Stay strong. dl