complicated love trouble :(
By netorati
@netorati (1)
May 5, 2008 6:43pm CST
well i don't know how to say but yes,i want some advises from you.
my story is like this..
i broke with my x bf on December last year and now i've healed my heart and i found a guy who is so kind with me and i feel good with him and it might be love in the future too..
everything would be ok if i don't know another guy and he is so kind again.
now i have 2 guys right? but it's not enough.. my friend who i know for long time just confess he loves me.
so so so...
i have 3 guys in my list and they are all good.
i don't know how to tell u but i like them all.
cute and smart and kind..
could u give me some advises about this?
i mean i want to choose one of them and try to have good love but i have no way out..i have no experience about that much.
Please..
7 responses
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
9 May 08
i think you do not love all these men. they are simply making you feel special and you love the feeling of being "in love"you like the attention you are getting and you are enjoying this... and so you think you love them...
you need to weigh the situation.. have you gone out with them? if so you are the only one who can answer your own questions on who you will choose... you have to get to know each one of them carefully and choose wisely.
@foundmyangel (607)
• United States
9 May 08
what if you found out that none of them was what you are looking for because right now you are overwhelmed with the idea of having all of them. What if none of them has the same things in common as you do. You have to find someone that shares more than looks and smart and kind you have to find someone that makes you a better person and understands your wants and desires as much as he does and you both have the same wants and desires in life and being together.Just think of yourself and not the other guy and you will find the answer you are looking for and take time away from them all to really think of who you miss the most.
@danzer (2723)
• Philippines
6 May 08
It might be good to have a background check on them. You will be shocked at what you will find out about them. They may be kind and nice to you especially when they are with you but deep inside, they are not so kind when you get married or once they get what they want from you. If you are ready to get married then be serious about it, but if not, better not answer anyone from them. 
@mz_Ira (1090)
• Philippines
6 May 08
being broken hearted is the toughest thing you have to deal with. Looking and waiting for love needs patience and hope.
As to your choosing your guy, I would go for a guy that I know well and knows me as well. You know every relationship has to go first on a 'getting to know' stage then be friends until you both feel mutual. So definitely I would choose the friend, who knows more of me than those two. And you have to consider as well for the things he done for you, was he always there for you through your ups and down?
@Remembering1996 (2219)
• United States
9 May 08
I would go with your friend I have to agree with the others
looks aren't everything. You know your friend well and he is good to you he should stay like that if he says he loves you and wants to be with you. Good luck with what ever one you choose to go with.
@ashwinvx999 (9)
• India
6 May 08
They may be cute and smart.Don't go by their looks.
Choose a person who u feel will take good care of you.
and also see if they are financially sound enough to take gud care of you.Do check their academic status too.
@spazticlastic (45)
• United States
6 May 08
I'd say go with your friend, because he IS your friend and like you said, you've known him for a while. So you know a lot about him and obviously have things in common with him. Then of course, you have to think of the other side of things. If things don't work out with you and your friend, things could ruin your friendship.
