I May have A stalker...

A secret admirer I would not mind, but once it would get out of control it would bother me , and I would be scared. Just so its sweet !!

I don't think so. I am more an upfront person. I want to hear your thoughts while I look into your eyes for sincerity. I was stalked once. Never knew why or for certain by whom. They always knew where I was. Went to a hotel one time and he called me there, disguising his voice. No thanks.

If you don't know the person it is from I would be cautious if I was you. The secret admirer thing is just crazy, and it is borderline stalker. If it is a stalker it will get much more intense, I would advise the company I worked for and ask for their counsel on this one.

I wouldn't mind if it was someone that I liked too, I would be flattered but if it was heavy and intense I would be a little frightened by it I think, but I have had bad experiences with men in the past so they may be a lot do with how I feel about this. Ellie :D

I think that a real life stalker is a tad frightening. In fact, very frightening. The only person that I have ever stalked has been my wife for the past 21 years. If I don't follow her around I lose her and then end up being ticked off! I could not envisage anyone wanting to stalk me. I'm Short fat and hairy, so maybe cousin Itt from the Addams family might have an interest, but that's about the extent I am afraid.

Secret admirer is ok but a stalker is must be scarey..Stalk at you? oh great..It scary coz you don't even know who that person. Its already a different thing.

A secret admirer would be okay, but a stalker, no thanks. To me a secret admirer would be nice, but not over step any boundries. A stalker would be someone going out of their way to follow you and watch you all the time. I had this happen in college and when it crossed the line it was a tad freaky.

I do believe that it would freak me out totally.. I am an open and above board person, I am not sure that I know how to handle any of this type of secrecy.. If someone were a secret admirer of mine, I think that I would want to know up front, that way, I could either say "back off" or "Let's get to know each other better"

I love getting gifts and money...so I guess I wouldn't mind so much. But since I'm not physically attractive, I highly doubt I would have any stalkers or admirers, especially since all of the people in my school are pretty shallow.