relationships

India
May 5, 2008 9:25pm CST
Friends..i am currently lonely and desperate for a relationship but kind of afraid to get into a relationship as i am afraid that i will get hurt and fear of getting rejected.is it strange...Is there a way to stop this fear and afraid.Please give me your views friends....
5 responses
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
6 May 08
Tripta, I must say that all your fears are unfounded and without any basis. You have not entered into a 'relationship', yet you are apprehensive about the future course of action. You appear to be looking at the 'negative' side first, instead of looking at the positive side. Why do you think that you would get hurt and get rejected (without any basis)? You should have confidence in you that whatever you will do to nurture your relationship, you will do it in right spirits and for the good of both of you. Some of the factors like 'rejection' etc. cannot be anticipated in advance. It depends who is going to be your partner? And please always remember that 'no one is perfect', so you need to accept the fellow (with whom you intend to enter into a relationship) with all his positive and negative traits (and also remember that you have some positive and negative traits, as well) and he will 'accept' you also with all your traits. So please go ahead, without any inhibition or hestiation and try to build up a healthy and menaingful and everlasting relationship with full honesty and sincerity. My best wishes are with you.
• India
16 Sep 12
hello friend thanx a lot foryour response.I think you are absolutely right in saying that my fears are unfoundedd an without any basis and i think that i have a to try to overcome it myself only, which i am surely going to try. thanx again have a nice day
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
17 Sep 12
Your comments came after 5 years of me submitting the response. What is the latest position? Did you enter into a relationship?
@rohanmona (159)
• India
15 Sep 12
You are on wrong path, don't be vulnerable. I can understand being lonely is not a nice feeling but it is better to remain lonely for a while so you get a good better half than jump in any relationship and get disappointed later. GOOD LUCK!!!
• India
17 Sep 12
hello friend...thanx a lot for your response.Yes i think you are absolutely right in saying so.I am waiting for the Mr right to turn up.Hope i will get him very soon. have a nice day
@subha12 (18441)
• India
6 May 08
i think this fear is within some. may be you are thinking too much about rejection and all. do you have any instance where you were rejected? if so, i think you already know what to do and what not to do. also make it a point that you approach boldly.
@jlamela (4897)
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
Try to release your mind from fears and welcome hope and opportunities. Maybe you are still holding some grudges in the past or some trauma in the past relationship that's why you cannot welcome new relationships, try to become a new person and think for good things in life, don't hold on to your past experience it will only pull you down more. Good luck!
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
15 Sep 12
dont keep this one for long time ,always try to find a sole mate and all will be fine after sometime