Is it fair to leave your current B/F because you realized that you dont love him

...The better way is to tell the truth... ...coz the more you resist telling him the truth... ...the more you will hurt your feelings... ...as well as you can hurt the feelings of your bf... ...it is better to end your relationship than to lie on your own feelings...

Honesty is required for a relationship to work. Tell him, it is not because you have to, but he has the right to now. Let him not decide for the two of you, the two of you must have a decision to be agreed upon. If you fall out of love, it's normal, because our feelings is fleeting. Relationships are for those person who are willing to commit. If by chance, you already told him, and he is willing to hang on, you might as well give him the chance. But if he will not, then I guess you are free. Anyways, what is meant to be is meant to be.

i think still you nee to give some time. now think what wrong the guy has done, may be its a low point going on. it can be revu=ived, if you think some problem with him, talk frankly.

Well feeling sorry for the sacrifices he made and the affection towrads him, may want you not to break your heart, but you just cant let time decide. You should decide. If you have fallen out of love, just talk to him and say you are deeply sorry, that would save both of you. You are out of a loveless relationship, and he is no more decieved into thinking that you love him. Just a straight talk, nomatter how much it hurts him is the best thing to do. Letting time decide, would really take you into a long runing unhappiness. I have a situation like this, and i just said it to him, i know he is feeling horrible, but so would i if i decieved him anymore, saying im still in love with him...

my girl and I had a relationship something like what your talking about,she left me,yes I was heart broke for a long time after that.But we refired a friendship several years later,and we are real good friends yet today,so I look at it like this.at the time we must have not been a good match for each other,it is better to split than to be in pain,true love takes both people feeling the same for each other,trust me life will go on.your heart will tell you who will be your match,just remember his heart must do the same.I hope you have many love filled days ahead of you.