What do you think about exchanging wives?
By linxiao
@linxiao (30)
China
12 responses
@positiveminded1977 (7072)
• India
6 May 08
I feel like laughing. And someone has written in this thread that wife is "private property."
First, whose wife are you planning to exchange?
Second, how are you so sure that she will keep her mouth shut while you exchange her?
You are talking about a human being, my friend, not a pair of trousers. If she is tired of you, she will leave you and go. And if you are tired of her, get a divorce and marry again or find a consenting adult female.
The way you post, it looks as if you have forgotten the fact that we talking about real live human beings with a mind of their own. You may peacefully exchange trousers. But your wife is not an inanimate piece of property for you to play with as you wish.
Cheers
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@property (453)
• United States
6 May 08
LOL.... I am property!!! My significant other tells me everyday I am the most valuable of his possessions...He also says that is because he respects my mind as well as the rest of me. (Just in case you thought he thinks I'm mindless) But, alas, my keeper is greedy... he wouldn't share. :)
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@asawanialvin0611 (1877)
• Philippines
6 May 08
it is never correct.Men should love their wives
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@eagle_f15 (1827)
• Malaysia
6 May 08
What is this? Absolute madness exchanging of wives!!! I am glad my husband said it is total rubbish!!!! And yes a wife is private property very very private indeed!!!
@flowerhorn (1008)
• Malaysia
6 May 08
Are you crazy? Wife is private property.
No way I am going to exchanging her, even though for someone more beautiful.
It is immoral, just for you know what. Shame on u even thinking on it.
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@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
9 May 08
I think its disgusting and totally crazy. Not a way to live . I dont know what they think when they do that....and thats just no love, ot got tired for...absolute sickness. And i read some 1 saying wife is private property? what was that? private property? so she is a land, and the husband owns her? I dont agree to that either....
@renee0909 (152)
• China
6 May 08
hey, linxiao, I see what you mean.
Don't be angry at some remarks. This issure only occures on TV. Maybe, you take it too seriously just as what I thought before.
Cheer up. Welcome to mylot.
@lee_lihui (23)
• China
6 May 08
If you and your wife feel tired of your marriage.I think both of you can exchange each other.Everyone has right to choose again.
@Buttercup11 (274)
• Canada
7 May 08
Tired? As in BORED? Are you kidding me? The last time I heard wedding vows - which was this last weekend - I didn't hear a THING about "unless down the road we get bored with each other." Marriages have up times and down times - the thing is to accept that there will be both, and then during the down times you have to work harder to connect with each other - do something new, go on dates, get a hobby together that's new to both of you. Inject some life into your relationship. Don't just throw it away! If to you, "I do" doesn't mean a thing, don't do it!
@property (453)
• United States
6 May 08
Still not sure if you mean the T.V. show... if so it is ammusing to watch, although I wouldn't participate in the show. They always send wacky over the top mom's out to your house to raise your kids in a manor they know you would hate. ICK. As for swingers, people who swap for a night and then back again... what ever knocks your socks off... if everybody is concentual and its your thing. Just for the record... I'm not suggesting its a good idea... only that I'm not going to start a protest outside someone's bedroom door. None of my business. :)
@property (453)
• United States
7 May 08
I personally wouldn't participate in a wife swap...I want no-one other than my partner. However if it was something someone else was into, I wouldn't judge them. Ultimately that is between them and their partner. And what ever higher power they believe.