How did you feel about the person you lost your virginity to?

My current boyfriend (of almost 1 year! ) and I lost our virginity to each other, and I couldn't be happier - we have a wonderful relationship and I feel so fortunate to have been able to make the choice and not regret it. When I was 12 I was sexually assaulted by a child-hood friend a few years older than me, and after that I couldn't let people touch me for a few years, without freaking out or bursting into tears, so to have been able and willing to make that choice, and feel how right it was is and was such a big thing for both of us =)

I thought I was in love with the guy, but I wasn't. After I lost it, I realized what a complete jerk he was and ended it soon afterward. He was needy, too, and begged for me to take him back but that just made me even more disgusted with him.

I had to think back over the ages hun - LOL I lost my virginity to a guy I was absolutely besotted with. I was 17 and naive, he was 24 and lead guitar. Our relationship lasted about a month and looking back I can only laugh really, I was a groupie

I was crazy about the guy I lost my virginity to, and I have zero regrets. It wasn't the most glorious experience, that's for sure, but I'm glad it was with Steve. He and I were close friends through our church youth group, and continued to be friends for years afterwards. I too look back at pictures of him and wonder what I saw in him. But it's obviously more about the way he made me feel. We used to have the most wonderful conversations, and would often stay up all night just talking at youth group functions. I haven't talked to him in years, and it's been over a decade since I last actually saw him. That was funny too....I was married and at a church service with my husband and Steve was there. During the service, there was a "sharing of the peace" where the congregation socializes for a few minutes and shakes hands with the people around them or gives them a hug (if they're close). Well, Steve came up to me and shook my hand. There was this look in his eyes that I'll NEVER forget... it said, "I had you first". lmao!

Fortunately, I was married to the man I lost it to but unfortunately, I don't think I was in love with him. When we married I was getting over this guy who had been my first love and my first heart ache. My first time had been exciting in the sense that it was something that I had wondered about for so long and now the mystery was being solved. However, it was what I expected or how I expected to feel. You always have the fantasy that it's going to be as great as it is in the movies and it never is sadly lol but in any case, it was what it was....

I was in love with him and he was in love me, we were together for 2 years until we decided to do it. Then we ended up getting married. And we are still in love with each other until now.

I guess there are a few of us still out there, I too lost my virginity to my husband.

I lost my virginity to my husband so I guess that means I picked the right person:)

i totally hte the person i lost my virginity to he just used me and i thought he cared for me.that was definately the biggest mistake of my life an ive definately learnt a huge lesson from it.

That man, (sigh) I have never imagined that I will share my most wonderful things with him. Even my virginity. And you know, I was never expecting it, but it turned out to be beautiful. It was love, and I knew it, my instincts are right. I am glad I didn't hold it back for him. He respects me, never forced me to do it, and he is madly in love with me. Yes he is, in August, we are turning 7 years. That is one part of my life I never get tired of reminiscing about.

I am totally in love with the guy I lost my virginity to. We haven't been together for very long. It was a year just in April past. He was also a virgin when we first did it and I think that makes it more special for us. He loves me just as much as I love him or probably even more. I would never regret losing it to him.

Each age have its own beauty when you was young loved or liked this guy and when you grow up your look changed because your character too so the love concept become more wide and more reality in your mind

At that time, I felt really happy because I've done it with someone I thought I loved. In retrospect, I wish I had waited. I don't regret doing it. It's just that I felt like I was used and played on by that person. Well, that's life.

I feel you did not loose anything. It is the boy who lost something. What I say may sound ridiculous but I feel the boy gave himself to you for something less than love. You did it out of pure love and that has value and meaning for you but he lost a part of himself for something lesser. So who is the loser, just think!

I feel repulsed & used. He was 8 years older than me. I feel like a fool for allowing myself to get sucked in. I dont really regret it, as it was a life lesson, but if i could go back, things would be different.

as for me i lost it with my first boyfriend, who became my husband now. right now my mind is too clouded too think, because everything about us is turning upside down. we are in really big mess now. under different circumstances i might smile if i would remember it, it's kind of funny why we ended doing it.