it is time to move on
@bluemoon4ever (288)
South Africa
May 6, 2008 1:08pm CST
you two have suffered a lot, you two went through very very difficult times together, you two have bear enormous criticism and pressure from people surround you and you are fighting, and then you tell yourself,"is it time to move on?"
You care a lot about the other special one, but he/she doesnt seem to do the same, everytime you heard something bad coming from their mouth and you are heartbroken, you tell yourself "is it time to move on?"
There are some traditional sayings in Chinese, one is 'couples fly away like birds in the wood when there is disater',and you are wondering 'am I going to live with this person for the rest of your life? Would there be more hurting words coming from that person? Would I get no more than heartbroken and disappointment?'
1 response
@Pitgull (1522)
• United States
6 May 08
If there are more negatives than positives, then your relationship is doing the exact opposite of what it's supposed to be...A relationship is something you can rely on, something that builds you up, makes you strong, and betters you and the other. If one person benefits, and the other feels like they have nothing, it might be time to move on...
Sometimes people are afraid to leave what they are comfortable with, and that's the hardest part of leaving a relationship. Sometimes that's the best thing we can do for someone else, and ourselves, know when enough is enough.
@bluemoon4ever (288)
• South Africa
6 May 08
thanks very much buddy that is exactly what i need in a long time...finally i can think for myself maybe...
@Pitgull (1522)
• United States
6 May 08
I've been there..at least I think. It's hard, you hear people say, just work on it, people don't work hard enough. But if you know, and feel, that you've given your all, and someone is not doing the same, they are taking from you.
I will not lie to you. You seemed like an honest soul, with a real situation, and sometimes people need to be told it's okay to move on. Not, stick with it, suffer and see if he'll change. People are who they are, and who they want to be. If you're being used, in anyway, emotionally, mentally, etc, you shouldn't suffer because of another.
