Steps to solve a problem

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In our lives we go through some problems especiallyin our relationships.There are various ways we can deal with these problems,I came across these and thought its wise to share with my friends here on mylot. 1.Set a time to discuss the problem, there is a time for everything in life ,you must look for the best time when you can discuss whatever the problem is with your mate. Relationship problems start easily but we must understand that that there is a time to talk and not to talk about them. Ignoring them will probably make it degenerate into a big problem. 2. Express yourself honestly and respectfully You must learn to express your opinion as honestly and as respectful as possible. try your best make yourself clear without sounding insulting.Dont have the unrealistic belief that your mate automatically understand that something is wrong he may not, he may need to be told but also politely. Clearly state what you think the problem is and how it makes you feel. 3. Listen and acknowledge your mate’s feelings: nothing kills a relationship as quickly as a feeling of neglect or insensitivity, you must learn to listen when your mate has a complaint and also try to state it to him/her how you understand what she /he is saying. It doesn’t have to be in the same language but let the mate know you acknowledge the situation. 4. Agree on a solution. After all said and done, try to come to a lasting solution, if you must compromise, do it as soon as you can. This is hoping that you find this useful. Good luck and blessings.