Are you selfish in bed?

United States
May 7, 2008 7:42pm CST
I didn't know if it was ok to start this discussion but I guess we all are grown up here-at least,most of us... I hate it when men just care about getting their own pleasure,that is so unfair because women need more time and definitely more attention. But it really warms my heart if the person I'm with is ready to wait just to make sure I'm happy. That's the way most women are-show them love and they will do their best to please you. Take care of me first and you're a keeper...:)))
4 responses
• Egypt
8 May 08
Hi Ana Your are right. Selfish in bed waste the sense of love. But it also depend on the woman too because this moments are between two persons and it is mutual if you make him happy sure he will make you happy ;)
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• United States
8 May 08
That's possible,too:))))) We're not talking about men who just turn away and sleep,right?;)
• United States
9 May 08
Lol try not to...
• Egypt
8 May 08
ya ana do you turn away?
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
8 May 08
I've actually been VERY fortunate to be with men who've cared MORE about my pleasure than their own...Their attitudes are that its sexy and a turn on to see ME pleased and enjoying myself...To them its far more important to do it that way because then we BOTH benefit LOL...no complaints from me thats for sure!!
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• United States
8 May 08
Oh,that is sweet:))))) A happy woman is a grateful woman,right?
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
8 May 08
I make it a point to make sure my wife is taken care of first...
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• United States
8 May 08
That's my man...:)))) Thanks!
@aiyreen (286)
• Philippines
8 May 08
i definitely agree with you. i think that's the right term to call it: being selfish. i think it's just right to satisfy yourself and making sure you satisfy your partner as well...
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