Do you read while you eat?

@kalav56 (11464)
India
May 7, 2008 11:59pm CST
When I was young , my mother told me very very strongly that we ought not to read while we eat. Even aftr marriage[ and now Iam middleaged]I don't do this. No one is after me preventing me but somehow I do not read while I eat. This is waht happens with habits instilled at an early age. I have seen many people reading while eating. What about you/ do you have this habit? Do you concentrate only on your food while eating?
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• United States
8 May 08
i'll read the newspaper sometimes at dinner,but usually only if i'm eating by myself.i was yelled at as a child too if i tried to read at the table,it just wasn't acceptable.but if i'm by myself,no one can see it,so i don't see any hurt in it.
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
8 May 08
Thank you for the response. so, many mothers do this I guess.
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• United States
8 May 08
yea,i think they do.it's considered bad manners..although somehow having the tv within viewing range was acceptable.i never figured that one out LOL
@bork5111 (24)
• United States
9 May 08
Yes I read while I eat. I remember my mother telling me the same thing. Sometimes it seems like thats the only time when I can read. A 2 year old makes it hard to read at times. When you sit on the couch or something he always climbs on me. When It is dinner we are all eating and at times I can get some reading done. I don't read and eat all the time but sometimes
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
9 May 08
Thanks for the response.
@peavey (16936)
• United States
8 May 08
I think it's rude to eat when you're at the table with others and that's probably why some of us were taught not to. However, if you eat alone (as I do, since I live alone), reading takes the place of conversation and I don't see anything wrong with that. Otherwise, I'd have to stare at the wall or something!
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
9 May 08
Exactly and you have rightly said it is rude in company , my friend.Thanks for the response.
@cortjo73 (6498)
• United States
8 May 08
The only time I read while I eat is during my lunch hour and, it is either a magazine, a book or here on myLot. Otherwise, I rarely eat breakfast so, that is a non-issue. And, I tend to watch tv while I eat my dinner, since I eat it alone (hubby is still at work by the time dinner time rolls around for me).
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
9 May 08
wATCHING TELEVISION WHILEi EAT IS PRETTY COMMON FOR ME TOO AND THIS DOES NOT FALLIN THE CATEGORY OF MY READING.Thanks for the response.
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
9 May 08
No, I don't read while I am eating. It is not a hobby of mine but my Father love to read newspaper while eating breakfast. I think this is his hobby hehehe
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
9 May 08
Thanks for the response.
• Jamaica
8 May 08
Sometimes I read and eat and I don't see anything wrong with it. For me I am a slow eater and when I'm readiing and eating, I eat even move slower and I don't concentrate on the food, but I don't mind it. Sometimes it is the only time I have to read the particular material, so I do what I got to do.
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
9 May 08
Your reponse brings back memories.I was a terribly slow eater when I was young and I would allow the food to get cold and push it in later when it is insipid.Probaly this is one of the reasons for my mom's ban on reading while eating. How we change with age! Now, I am the fastest in my place and I eat very fast before the food gets lukewarm , so much so that my motherinlaw calls me a bird that swallows fire.
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
8 May 08
I don't read when I am eating. I am not a child any more and I have to act a good example for my child:) I love China
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
9 May 08
I remember how devoted you are to your child .Thanks for the response.
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
8 May 08
Hi kalav56! Just like you, we were not allowed to read when we are on the dinner table. We do have conversations while eating. Even now that I am married, I don't read while eating. Just my thoughts dear friend. Take care and have a nice day!
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
9 May 08
Thanks for the response. I too love to eat with family and we keep chatting about different issues.
@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
8 May 08
Hello,kalav! I never read nor watch tv while eating my meals.it is a major activity in our daily life.so let us enjoy it truly to the fullest satisfaction.if you divert your mind you will welcome indigestion and other ailments concerning to stomach.thanx.
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
9 May 08
This is what is said regarding conversation also. We should concentrate on the food is basically the moral of the story. Thanks for the response.
@p_vadla (1685)
• India
8 May 08
I do eat while watching TV or movies.But not yet eating while reading. Any way isn't it difficult to hold the book with one hand and at the same time putting food n t the mouth with the other.When I am relaxed, normally I do concentrate on chewing and taste of the food but it is just pushing in when having busy schedules or during work days.
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
9 May 08
I can understand what you say. I am a housewife and I don't go out to work. When one day I make plans to go out early and tag along with husband or son, I just have no time to eat my meal in a relaxed manner and just finish it as a duty. i WOULDHAVE UMPTEEN OTHER THINGS TO WIND UP, ESPECIALLY IF I WOULD RETURN LATE IN THE EVENING.Thanks for the response.
@ruthinian (2309)
• United States
8 May 08
I wasn't told not to read while eating but still I don't do it. When I grew up meal for us is always.... a happy meal (not the one from McDonalds) Meal time is always a nice experience because that was the time when we really sit down and talk. As a child, me and my siblings had fun memories of that. Now that I am a wife, I also make it a point that our meal is a happy experience. I never eat ahead if my hubby will be home late. I will always wait up for him and eat supper together. And we always talk how our day was during meal time.
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
9 May 08
I too sit and eat with husband and in fact if i am delayed, while doing work in the kitchen and I have served him ahead I give an announcement asking him to eat slowly because i would join him soon.Thanks for the response.
@Alixander (178)
• Romania
8 May 08
Hy, This topic is funny beause I do the same thing While reading, I;m eating and drinking, Well I concentrate to what I read, and in the meantime I;m eating, Its fun, And you can do more things at once, and don;t spend hours to eat and then read, If you can do the both things in the same time Then Why don;t do it, If you like it then do it, I do eat when I;m reading, And I like it. Greet.
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
9 May 08
Thanks for the response.Greetings to you too.
• United States
8 May 08
I feel that people are different when it come to what your topic is about. You were brought up this way and still do it there is nothing wrong w/ it. I do read while I eat. I will sit infront of my computer while reading mylot discussions and eat at the same time. It's not an everyday thing but I do do it. I think you will get many different answers on this topic. I hope you enjoy all your responses that you get.
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
9 May 08
There is of course nothing wrong with it.Only habit makes us behave in a particular way. Thank you for the response and as you rightly pointed out I seem to get varied responses on the topic.
• Malaysia
8 May 08
i don multitask when im entertaining my stomach. not a good example and habit tho , not suggested :X
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
9 May 08
Thanks for the response. Yeah ! They do say it is not advisable.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
9 May 08
no, i generally do not. i mainly read when i am not doing anything that can take away my attention. I also think that we lose concemtration in both then.
@moneyandgc (3428)
• United States
9 May 08
If we were sitting down to eat as a family then we weren't allowed to read at the table while eating. Any other time was acceptable though. I read while I eat quite often when I am alone or when the baby is asleep. I don't see anything wrong with it. My parents read while they eat too.