I love a girl,but I don't know how to let her know.Give my some advice

China
May 8, 2008 12:58am CST
These weeks I was always sitting by a girl at my Logical Circuit course every Monday.We talked a lot and I helped her with the course.These days I was always thinking of her,I think I love her! But she did not seem have the same feeling upon me. What should I do?What if she has a boyfriend? Give me some advice pls! Thank you everybody
7 responses
• China
8 May 08
Well, it all depends on how much you love her. But don't you worry about whether she has a boyfriend or not, because even she does, you will still have the possibility to her love. However, you should be attractive enough to her then. I would say if you are a shy person, why not try to give her some hits. I believe girls are telligent enough to decode the coded messages of men. So if she has equal interest in you, then she will definitely give you positive answers. Wish you good luck with that. By the way, you will not die even if you find she is not available to you. So, why not speak out with it?
• China
8 May 08
Thank you for your advice. Speak out?What if she give me negative answer?That will embaress both of us because we will meet several times a week.
• China
8 May 08
But you are not going to die then though you are refused! So there is no need for your fret. In order to avoid embarrassment, I've advised you to give her some hints and see how she responds. I guess you are a university student now, just be brave.
@athinapie (1150)
• Philippines
8 May 08
Show her that you like her by doing nice things to her. Try asking her whether she has a boyfriend. Come on... There's no harm asking.... Ask for her number and text her some nice quotes. Maybe one day she might realize that she may like you back...goodluck!
• China
8 May 08
I got her ICQ number now.But I think ask her whether she has a boyfriend is too soon
@subha12 (18441)
• India
8 May 08
if she has a bF or does not feel the same way, you just can't force your love to him. actually love is something that is spontaneous. try to keep a watch and see what she feels. also if possible take some hint whether she is seeing someone.
• China
8 May 08
Thank you I'll try
@nengs10 (3180)
• Philippines
8 May 08
Problems like this really exist when you start to fall in love. Anyway, if you can't tell the girl straight, think of other innovative ways for her to know. Writing a letter to her is one good option. Of course, before doing this, you have to ask your friends and make a research if the girl is still single.
• China
8 May 08
Thank you for your advice
• China
8 May 08
send her a gift ,a special gift that will express your love for you. Or you can tell the love to the friend of that girl,the friend will be the good third man.
• China
8 May 08
Hum,good idea.But how to meet her friend
• China
8 May 08
You can tell her indirectly first by joking or some similar way, and find what her reaction is. If she is willing to get along with you, then you can tell her your feeling directly. What do you think?
@arifur (56)
• Bangladesh
8 May 08
be a brave man say directly i love you more than others.