II have a friend whose husband seems to think that women are beneth him?

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well the? i have is this: on wen. he called and asked if i could help him with the boys(3 of them) and i have no problem with that . so i ask him why and he says to play poker(they are stuggling with money) so i ask if his wife knows and he says he is going to call and tell her so i say sure,well after all is said and done and she gets home from work (also everyone eats at my house) he calls and wants to stay out allnite. so my husband takes them home and i call him and tell him in a nice tone of voice that i dont care to be put in the middle and am not going to be a gateway to helping him to screw my freind over so he says i cant handle this right now i said fine just dont ask me to help you out again. so am i the bad guy?