Explain Yourself!!

I doboth. SOmetimes I'll pose a question and leave it open. Then as people respond I share pieces of my ideas or thoughts on the subject. I do this to get people's real thoughts, instead of "yeah that's true", or "I think that too." I want to know what people think, before they know what I think. But sometimes I share a little in my initial post, to give people a little clearer idea of the question I am posing.

well i guess they were after the earning and that's all. they seem that they don't care that much when they start their own discussions lol and when i see that kind of discussions, it just annoys me

Hello thuynhu! I have never ever started a one line discussion in my time here ever since I started. I give all the relevant details that I can. I also provide possible choices and/or different opinions, to help people organize their thoughts, depending on the type of discussion I am having. I also give explanation, sometimes though not always, as to why I started that discussion and how it was inspired, just so, people could understand the perspective and may have clear idea what I am talking about and what my intentions are with the discussion. That said, I don't give my opinions, most of the time, in my discussion starter. It is just to let people think on their own and not get them biased on one side or the other. I think starting one liners, not giving explanation is one thing and not giving opinion is another.

I suppose it is because it is easier to ask questions than answering them ! But, mylotters are working together as a community. That is very good , right ?

Whenever I ask a question on my own discussions I usually give the reason why I am asking and then I will post my oppinion. Sometimes if i accidently switch the browser off before i am done or something I may get too flustered to write down everything i say again!

yeah...that only makes sense to add in your own opinion to the conversation you start. if you don't your really not having a discussion are you?

Yes I agree. I think it's more interesting to read about the asker's opinion on the subject, and it's always nice if they explain why they're asking the question otherwise it does sometimes seem as if they're just asking random questions off the top of their head! Also if somebody's asking for my opinion on something then it seems fair for me to know what their opinion is too! I've occasionally asked at the end of my response 'so what's your opinion on this?', but a lot of the time people don't come back to give their opinion. It's like they want to ask the question but not want people to know what they think about it.

i seriously dont have a problem with them being like that... i guess theyre so caught up in the moment of seekign a solution that they dont seem tooo get the time to put up more

i agree with you, i think they do it for a purpose..to attract more response,hahaha..just an opinion...happy posting!

hello i hate one line discussions too, mylot is now a days deleting such discussions, that is a wonderful step, here the discussion starter as well as the responder both lose, so need to be careful.. Thank you so much for this nice post, cheers God bless you. Prof