Would a terrible break up affect you in this way? Or would you be more cautious?
By tjades
@tjades (3591)
Jamaica
May 8, 2008 10:59am CST
I have this friend who was relates to me that he was terribly hurt by his girlfriend who cheated on him.
He really hates talking about it. The story though is that he got really mad and decided to hurt women. ????? 
Ended up hurting himself I'd say as he now has two boys with two different women and they are the same age. Now that he doesnt like to about either and doesnt like when its used to judge him.
It was a stupid move no doubt as he could have ended up with HIV. Well he loves his children and stands by them as a father.
He has one other child wno is in her pre teens and apparently before his moment of madness he had been careful not to have another child until he was really ready. He says he has seen his former girlfriend and she expressed that she was sorry but he would not go back in a relationship with her.
The breakup had gotten physical where she threw a bottle which caught him in the head and broke it. She started to say sorry then but he held his temper and to her not to touch him. He left and told her to pack her things and leave.
Some guys do get the hard end to hold on to uh. Well thats his story. But I want to focus on his actions after the break up. Would you be so affected that you become reckless even to the detriment of your own health?
Ended up hurting himself I'd say as he now has two boys with two different women and they are the same age. Now that he doesnt like to about either and doesnt like when its used to judge him.
It was a stupid move no doubt as he could have ended up with HIV. Well he loves his children and stands by them as a father.
He has one other child wno is in her pre teens and apparently before his moment of madness he had been careful not to have another child until he was really ready. He says he has seen his former girlfriend and she expressed that she was sorry but he would not go back in a relationship with her.
The breakup had gotten physical where she threw a bottle which caught him in the head and broke it. She started to say sorry then but he held his temper and to her not to touch him. He left and told her to pack her things and leave.
Some guys do get the hard end to hold on to uh. Well thats his story. But I want to focus on his actions after the break up. Would you be so affected that you become reckless even to the detriment of your own health?1 person likes this
3 responses
@meiteoh (416)
• Switzerland
16 May 08
No, I wouldn't - it's just stupid to go on ruining your life because of a woman. And in his case, sorry if I'm blunt, he's a jacka** - what kind of example is he going to set as a man for his children?
If she was super special and so forth, I would understand a tiny bit of why he's acting out but I can't.
Everyone goes through a break-up; what is so special about his that he has to risk his life, limbs and health?
This reminds me of that guy who caught HIV from his girlfriend and then went around giving HIV to other women as a form of revenge. On top of being angry at someone like that, sometimes I want to laugh at him. If you must punish someone, get your target right. Punishing the innocent just makes you exactly like your partner.
The only crazy thing I did after my break-up was ask my ex to take me back. And even then I sometimes want to hit myself for doing that. =.=
@dragonfly242 (1060)
• Bahamas
8 May 08
I have known people who cheated because they were cheated on. And this seems reckless to me,i believe that two wrongs will never make a right. For some people it's easier to react this way,thats just how they cope.It's good to know that he is being a good father to his kids though, although he should have gone about it differently.
@promoney (36)
• Romania
8 May 08
my opinion is that he was so hurt by the fact that things did not work well, and he couldn`t reconnect with his old girlfriend, especially if she has been cheating on him. Its a good thing that he cares about his children and at least tries to be there for them. I`m not amazed by the fact he decided to hurt women and that means he himself was really hurt by women in the past.
