Do you feel good in your own skin?

@Remmie7 (167)
United States
May 9, 2008 1:16am CST
Ladies do you feel good in your own skin? Do you have the confidence that if you are 50 to 100lbs over weight you step out with your head held high? Maybe theres someone out there that needs some positive words of excepting who you are. I have to tell you a little story. I grew up with a friend of mine. We kept in touch with each other since kindergarden. This woman is amazing. She is 200lbs. over weight, she has a more active life than I do. I went to visit back here for Christmas and she has gotten a little bigger. She has guys asking to take her out all the while I was there. We went clubbing and she was asked to dance more than the other women including myself. I notice how she walked, talked and carried herself. It was like she commanded appearence be known. No, she didn't go out of her way for attention she was just being herself. In case you were wondering if (we) that were with her out clubbing we are good looking women that carry ourselves like ladies, I now know that she loves herself the way she is. She has excepted it and she also likes herself. She's not vain, always treated people like she wants to be treated. Tell me what you think about yourselves. Women as well as Men, for the men tell me if you like thick women. There is no shame in it, where it use to be. I give props to those that do feel good in there own skin Big or Small. It's whats on the inside that shines through.
1 response
@agfarm (930)
• United States
9 May 08
Dear Remmie , Hi .....It's Rogue I do feel good in my Skin. I haven't felt this Confidence , since I was in my early 20's! I went through a long-stretch of really not feeling good about my self , But that was Because I let Daily stress and Activities consume me. Recently I have had somewhat of a transformation. I'm back to the Powerful-Athlete ( Mentally ) that I used to Be. Sure I pass out everyonce in a while......But every Super-Hero has a Down Day! Much Love to U My " Ragin' Cajun!!!!!! "
@Remmie7 (167)
• United States
9 May 08
Hey Rogue, glad you responded. You know the TV personality Moniqe, She has sort of a beauty pagent for thick girls. It's awsome the way she makes the ladies feel like they are just as important and beautiful as someone that the world views as a "proper weight" person should look like. It's important to me to help spread the word or get out some positive energy to those that may think less of themselves, because they think they may be too heavy or small. You said the magic word "Mentally" it all starts there. Now Rogue since you been there you can help someone else. How bout that! Hope to talk to ya soon and thanks once again. Much lov Remmie7