ladies, what do you want from men?

Philippines
May 9, 2008 10:34am CST
opposites do attract even though men are from mars and you , women are from venus? an age old mystery now it can be told. what do you want for men to do to make you feel good?
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7 responses
• Philippines
9 May 08
it doesn't really have to be handsome good looking man..he just got to be clean inside and outside and got good manners..i don't want a guy to please me just to make me feel good but he could be a man who shows he cares and would be very supportive in all you do..and a man who knows how to treat his girl right...
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• Philippines
13 May 08
ok. could you kindly expound on the issue on how would a man treat his girl right aside from having good manners and being clean.
• United States
9 May 08
love, honesty, trust and an equal partnership.
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• Philippines
13 May 08
thank you for your response,gemini.have a good day!
@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
9 May 08
We want to be made to feel beautiful, even if we aren't society's version of perfection. We want to be accepted for who we are, and not compared to other women. We want our interests to be encouraged, and not subjugated to second place. We want a man who is secure enough in his own masculinity not to be jealous every time we even look at another man. That's not asking too much, is it?
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• Philippines
13 May 08
it is not asking too much, my dear.it is nice to know what you really want so we can understand women more.thank you , jillbeth!
@lucy02 (5015)
• United States
12 May 08
I like the same qualities in men that I like in anyone else, honesty and compassion. If I can't trust someone then I will never feel completely comfortable with them.
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• Philippines
13 May 08
i agree on the honesty and compassion thing but i would suggest that you turn the latter part of what you said inside out. trust should first come in ourselves and not wait for for anyone to earn our trust.thanks lucy.
@Jemina (5770)
14 May 08
Thank you for asking this question. I am attracted to men who dress neatly and can do their own laundry. I think this is rarely true but I am impressed when a man tidies his own mess. I like men who are not bigoted and opinionated. Men who enjoy jokes and have some up their sleeve to share are also fond to me. And the best thing I like about my man is that he knows what makes me happy and what makes me cry. I can be me when I'm with him.
• Philippines
17 May 08
...a down to earth kinda person.
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@Jemina (5770)
17 May 08
Not necessarily down to earth as long as he knows where to put himself in any given situation. One who's got a common sense (ika nga).
@Cocoa33 (921)
• United States
12 May 08
we want you to listen and be atentative. don't take us for granted. help out with the chores, don't leave the seat up when u use the toliet. surprise us with a candle light dinners sometimes, show us some respect. we want to know we matter to you, we are number one in your book. hope this answers your question
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• Philippines
13 May 08
i guess being a good listener and being attentive is the one that we lack more in relating to women.thanks, cocoa.
@bagumbayan (2705)
• Philippines
15 May 08
Must always be neat and not boastful. A real man.
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