Would you give him more food?

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My son Alex is 7 years old and in grade one (his first year of school all day and every day). He does well in school, has many friends, and is one of the taller kids in his class. He is also one of the world's most pickiest eaters. He drives me nuts with the limited variety of foods he will eat. He has almost always been this way, and I'm tired of it. With most kids, there is a list of foods they have that they will not eat for whatever reason. My list always had brussel sprouts, cabbage, and turnip on it... and still does actually. I would think that there are about 10 common foods that a lot of kids (and people in general) dislike, and so as parents, we will try not to make those foods for them on a regular basis. But what if your child was like my Alex, and was the opposite? What I mean by opposite, is that he has a limited list of foods that he WILL eat. Here are the only foods he will eat: mashed potatoes, noodles (like Lipton's sidekicks, chef boyardee and lasagna), spaghetti with meat sauce, ham, scrambled eggs, hot cereal (maple & brown sugar and apple and cinnamon only), hamburger helper, french fries (only at restaurants where they're done in the deep fryer), broccoli, chicken nuggets (one brand only), chicken wieners and bananas. I think that's the entire list. Common foods and snacks he will NOT eat: pizza, hamburgers, roasts, all veggies (other than the broccoli), crackers, cheese, applesauce, watermelon, grapes, strawberries, yogurt, goldfish crackers, cereal bars, granola bars (hard or chewy) cold cereal, tacos, pudding, jello, salads of any kind, sandwiches of any kind, bread and toast, chips, popcorn, hot dogs IN buns, cake, pie, ice cream, cookies, chocolate, suckers, etc. I got very tired of making separate meals just for him, when he refused to eat the foods that the rest of the family was having. I started doing that for him when he was a toddler, because I wanted to make sure he was getting a weekly dose of everything in the food groups. But once I realized he was growing well and there were no issues there, I decided that enough was enough. I decided that whatever I was making for meals is what he would be served. If he didn't like it, he didn't have to eat it, but he would NOT be getting anything else. He starts his day with 2 pkgs of hot cereal every morning. I make it with milk to make sure he's getting the calcium and other vitamins it offers. He is allowed 2 bananas a day at the most (too many could cause pooping problems, and there's the whole issue where he needs to learn to eat other foods). For lunch at school he usually only has one of the bananas for the day, and a drink (b/c he refuses to eat the other standard lunch items that his brothers get in their lunches). Dinner in our house varies... if it's a lasagna night, then he's happy, and has his fair share of the food (and trust me, he can really pack it in)... but if it's pizza night, he'll choose to not eat anything. If you were Alex's parent, would you give in to him? He whines about how he's starving, and I offer him an assortment of foods like I do his brothers when they're still hungry (like carrots and dip, yogurt, granola bars, popcorn, toast, etc), and he flat out refuses those foods. What would you do? Would you feed him the foods you know he'll eat? Or would you continue to watch him suffer and be all moody and such?