how is really first time in married bed?

Philippines
May 9, 2008 10:25pm CST
hi friends,, im getting married with my boyfriend a couple of month from now. well i have just heard a lot of things about first timers. many even says it really hurts. oh my! anybody can share thier experinces? please...
2 responses
thuynhu
@thuynhu (661)
• United States
10 May 08
Yea it does hurt. It won't be as bad as you think it is. Some people exaggerate what happens. But you should expect to bleed a little, I don't mean to alarm you that its extremely painful, cause its not. But then again each person is different. My first time, it hurt because I wasn't sure what in the world to do. And after he tried to just push like its suppose to happen that way, we slowly down and it got a lot easier. You'll enjoy it after the little bit of pain.
wendilyn
@wendilyn (60)
• Philippines
10 May 08
ooh yes friend,, thanks for telling me that.. but i just cannot help myself but to feel tense when thinking about it.. but well as what you say it only hurts at the first time..
devil77
@devil77 (143)
• Canada
10 May 08
I'm not going to lye,it does hurts,for some more than others.Dont worry about it,as long as you take it slow,it wont be so bad.After the firts time it gets better.
wendilyn
@wendilyn (60)
• Philippines
10 May 08
hi friend.. thanks for it,, now i dont really worry,, well some said it really gets better after 3 sessions..