why does LOVE hurt?
By mkchaves
@mkchaves (530)
Canada
8 responses
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
10 May 08
I don't know the reason why love hurts but that's what the song says and I believe that song not because the song says so but because I have seen it happen too often. What I have noticed is that the greatest love doesn't seem to last a long time and simply becomes a kind of flavor of the month rather than a grand passion.
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
10 May 08
Each matter has its own black-and-white side.
Love is passive. You're gonna make it hurt for you, it will give you the hurt. But if you expect the joy from it, it will give you a joy. Love manifestation is depending on how you bring its character. For example, try to cheat, you'll going to hurt your partner, And yourself.
Love resembles a mirror, it reflects on what you did. You treat the mirror means you love of yourself and the "other side" (symbolize as your partner). But if you hate it, you smashed it with your fist, your hand is wounded, your "other side" (partner) is also hurt. You hate "other side" which was a reflection of you hated yourself.
When one got problem in a relationship, one cannot do a self-introspection, one will be likely to blame on other rather than oneself, just because the mirror has become fragments (broken), that makes one cannot see right on oneself and keep blaming on other (partner).
@virginia0813 (28)
• Australia
10 May 08
Well, it depends on how much you love him.
The more you love more happiness you will gain from being with him. Of coz, it will hurts you more if you quarrel or even break up with him.
But I truly believe you have happiness much more than suffering.
@nAyOhMi14 (298)
• Philippines
10 May 08
In love, getting hurt is natural. Why? If you won't hurt how will you know that your already love that certain person.And always remember that you cannot have a rainbow without any rain, right?
@tosetosignn (1)
• Nigeria
10 May 08
Yeah baby,people get hurt when they love, cos they are not loved in return. From my experience, i want to say that people who love dont easily come across someone who will love them in return ( i was a victim).The moment you start seeing whom you so much love doing what irritate you , maybe dating your next neigbour you will be hurt inside.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
10 May 08
The amount you get hurt by a relationship is solely on you. If your partner constantly emotionally scars you then you should reevaluate your relationship. What really matters is feeling with your heart what is right to do, and that will lead you to whatever you may choose to do with said partner.
Hurt does happen with any relationship but the amount of time you allow it to continue before you talk to the person or before you take the person out of your life is a decision that is solely yours to make.
@prakashdon (29)
•
10 May 08
according to me love hurts a lot when a girl or a boy leaves their loved once after lot of enjoyment .