a love affair!!
@josephjoshyjoy (113)
India
May 10, 2008 8:08am CST
im a 21 year old male. i ve been in love with a girl for 4 years. we r good friends. i ve never told my feelings to her. im sure she doesnt know about it (thats the way i pretend in front of her..... oh god). im afraid i may lose a good friend if i tell her. also i fear what if she rejects me. she so beutiful and im ordinary looking. pls help me ppl
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4 responses
@sophiasmom911 (1345)
• United States
10 May 08
Well I dont see the problem in telling her. If she doesnt feel the same way then you can still be friends. Now being in a realationship and it ending would hinder the realationship , but hopefully shes a good listener and very understanding so it shouldnt be a problem how you feel. I would tell her.
@wooitsmolly (3613)
• United States
10 May 08
I think that if you do not tell her you might regret it for the rest of your life! Think about it... if you tell her, there is a chance she feels the same way and you two could date. If you don't tell her, there is never a chance at all. Even if she doesn't feel the same way, at least you can get it off your chest and I'm sure it would not ruin the friendship, as long as you are not weird about it and creep her out 
@blackmantra_x (2732)
• Philippines
10 May 08
One thing I can say. It's better to have love and failed than ot to have love at all.
@girlchild (5)
• Trinidad And Tobago
10 May 08
I know that feeling, actually i was 'the girl' once. my husband and i were friends for many years as teenagers and he had secretly loved me and i did the same. we were both afraid of rejection cuz we didn't want to loose a great friendship, just like you. But one night he told me how he felt and i was so happy and i told him that i have loved him for so long, and now looking back it was funny cuz we both were thinking the very same thing!! so my dear joseph, each great relationship is built on a friendship, so go brave and let her know how u feel.
