If you are beutiful....
By chou_chou
@chou_chou (141)
United States
May 10, 2008 10:31am CST
If you are beautiful , It's hard to make friends with girls , but it's easy to make friends with boys , right? Do you think so ?
Sometimes , girls think "This girl is beautiful , she looks self conceited , I don't like her " although they haven't talked with you before . And you get their bad first feeling in the first time meeting .
However , boys will think in different way " She is very beautiful , I want to talk with her " So it's easy to get a new friend .
Do you think like me ?
4 responses
@MGjhaud (23240)
• Philippines
13 May 08
Hehehe.. I sometimes notice this too. Well there really are immature and insecure women sometimes, when they see that you have better hair, they feel like touching and smoothing theres as if it's better than yours no matter what -- or whatever. Men I guess doesn't care about much on their own blood's clothing style or looks. They tend to smooth then shirts or lick their lips when they see beautiful women just to make sure they look good themselves -- not looking better than you.
@laglen (19759)
• United States
13 May 08
I don't agree. I have plenty of beautiful friends. They do not intimidate me. I look on the inside. I find alot of beautiful people are shallow and or so full of themselves that there is no room for friends. I am not saying this is your case. Some women can't be friends with a beautiful woman because they think it is competition. I am too secure for that. If a man is going to like me, he will like me no matter who I am standing next to. Also, pretty friends can get you free drinks from the idiots!
@tophatmagic (2)
• Canada
10 May 08
This is an every day occourance and human nature but there are some things you can do to help it not to happen.
Be yourself and enjoy your life,never try to be someone that you are not
Don't dress the part of a beautiful person were conservitive cloths.
I see on a daily basis young attractive girls who poured themselves into they cloths or wear a dress so short that they is nothing left to the imagination or the top they are wearing is so low you are wondering if they are going to fall out.
This type of dress makes the girls envious of you and the boys want to get into bed with you.
When you are around people who want to condem you because you are beautiful remember that they feel insucure because they are not or think that they are not. This is the time for you to say something to them in a positive fashion such as I like the way you changed your hair.Or perhaps is that a new blouse it is do colourfull.
Putting them on the positive side can help very much.
As I don't know you or your circumstances or how you dress I am not making these comment to say this is what you are doing. Just trying to give a couple of helpfull hints.I drive a school bus of highschool students so like I say I see the behavior of everyone 5 days a week. Sitting and listening to what is being said I learn a lot.
Watching what the real good looking girls are wearing.
The other thing I see is ones that are almost beatiful and what they were is sometimes even worse.
Be at a persons level and treat them with respect and let them know what they have in life to offer is just as good as what you have and there may be cases where what they have is better than what you have. If this is the case then let them know.
@abigale_1983 (2)
• China
13 May 08
This problem always puzzles me,i don't think it is the fault of appearance,at beginning ,i also ascribed this to the beauty,but,it proved it is wrong,maybe the actual reason is that we don't know how to make friends with those girls,because of our beauty,the beauty make us feel prior to them,and hope everyone to revolve around us,at fact,the beauty let us be far away others girls,instead,maybe they also want to make friends with us.