how can i say to a girl that i want to break up with her?

there really isnt any way to do it without hurting her.. think of a band-aid .. and do it quickly and as painlessly as possible instead of dragging it out.

There is no easy way in telling the other person that you want to break up with him/her but I think that if you really don't love the person anymore, you need to be brave in telling her the truth gently. You will break her heart ofcourse but atleast, you tell her the truth and not play with her or so.. Soon, she will recover and find a new love. Goodluck! Cheers!

The sad thing about this kind of situation is there is no easy way to let her know. Just questions to ask yourself is does it appear that she has a inkling that this is happening. Have you made it look like you are still interested in her? Depending on how long you two have been together will depend on how hard it will affect her. It sounds like you are a compassionate person and the longer you wait the harder it is going to be to let her know. Try to do it as gentle as you can. Do it by going someplace by yourselfs so that she is not humilated around others. I will pray that you have the right words to give her and not hurt her to bad. No matter how gently you do it she is going to be hurt.

Oh my, i had just a discussion about breaking up;). Well, anyway, just tell her honestly how you feel about your relationship. And that she will still be your friend..:) I'm sure she'll get hurt but that's normal in every break up but soon she'll recover. I wish you goodluck!