How did you deal with school bullies?

I've been bullied all the way to and in high school and I had a hard time dealing with it. I've been picked on because of my bad motor skills and balance impairment. It didn't matter what teachers said, what I said, if I tried to be nice or just to stay out of the way. Nothing seemed to help. This one day I was so fed up with the guy who bullied me I was about to cry in his presence (I usually cried at home but never in school, not even the time they put an ice ball in my neck and held me till it melted down my spine, it's a very bad memory...) and I exploded verbally. I don't even remember what I said but it wasn't pretty. I told him how pethatic he was for picking on a little girl (he was two times my size) and that he should feel very proud of himself showing of to his no-good friends because he had no actual skills to be proud off(something like that I believe... was a long time ago). Ever since that day at least he left me alone. I don't know if it's the best way to handle a bully but it surely was the only way to handle him. I felt proud of myself and I felt bad for shouting at him at the same time; I wish I could've handled it in a more friendly way, but there was no other way around it and they had hurt me for too long. Good thing you managed to work things out with your bullies .

I don't remember anyone really bullying me...but I do remember two instances (at different schools) when 2 girls were mean to me (I think they were one time incidents...but can't be sure). Anyways, one thing led to another and in one case, we ended up having a fight...a physical fight where we pulled each other's hair and pushed and pulled. We laugh about it now...but it wasn't very nice then. But we patched up really soon ( ac ouple of days) and have been good friends since. In the other incident, the girl said something mean to me and it was at a time when my mother wasn't with us (she was in India because she had lost her father) and I was really hurt by the comments. I remember going to a corner and crying by myself.

The only thing I knew to do was try to inore them. I like your idea though of tellingone of the bullies about the other one talking bad about her.

I was never bullied at school because if I was, they had my twin sister to deal with as well as 3 brothers to answer to too LOL. I hung around with a good bunch of neighborhood friends that stuck up for each other so if any one was being bullied, they were helped out of the situation.

I always just did my best to ignore them. I wasn't bullied too much, I was picked on a bit, but never actually bullied. Now my son is being bullied and picked on in school. He has had kids punch and hit him, and he always just sat there and took it. I finally told him to hit back, and he did. He came home with bleeding knuckles one day. Well since then he hasn't been being bullied anymore.

when i was in the 1st grade there was this big girl named Alana that was supposed to be a bully. I say supposed because she didn't instill any fear in my heart. I had to go to the doctor to get a shot and that made my back sore. We were going back in the building from recess and we had to walk in a line. She was standing behind me. She kept hitting me in my back. I told the teacher who told her to stop but she kept doing it. When I get mad it's kind of scary because my strength meter seems to shoot up. I balled my fist up and hit her in the face. Believe it or not she was out cold. They even thought I had a rock or something in my hand but it was just my strength. They got smelling salts from the cafeteria to make her come back around. I didn't get into trouble but they did contact my mother who told me good job. lol. The bully moved away for a while and we didn't see her again until middle school.

When I was a little kid, I was bullied by other kids in school. So what I did is befriend those big kids who have the ability to fight. I used my brains as a trade. I help them in their quizzes and assignments and they protect me from bullies. That works while I was in grade school. Nobody bullied me in highschool, I bullied them. I have learned karate. But now no more, there are no people bullying me already! Peace is everywhere...