do think its ok if married women have friends?

Are you kidding? He doesnt think it is right for you to have friends? What is wrong with him? What does he want you to do just have him and no one else? I think that is out of line. We all need friends. I think you need to tell him to shove it and you need to get yourself friends. I might be bias, because my fiance is in the military and when he is deployed the only thing that keeps me sane is our friends! But I think everyone married or singe, needs friends.

Yes! who r u? u dont let ur wife have friends?

life without friends is pritty glum your husband sounds like a control freak tell him you are going to have friends anyway

There is nothing wrong in having friends. Every one has got right to have friends. why married women shouldn't have?. It is my opinion.

I couldn't imagine not having any friends. I have friends my age & some a little older. But my husband isn't all that much older than me. So we have a lot of couple friends that are around both our ages.

Ya... why now

For me nothing wrong, as far as i know many mens are like that they don't like their wives have more friends. No matter how you try to explain to them still they do dot agree with you . This is their nature. The decision is in your hand ! All the best.

Be true to yourself! You deserve to have friends! My ex mother-in-laws husband was exactly like that for their whole marriage. 57 years later she still craves friends...I've never met a woman as lonely for women friends as much as her! I think it's way off base for another person to tell you that you cannot choose to have friends in your life. I think it is controlling, to say the very least. Perhaps he thinks that by having women friends it would open your eyes up, so that you would see the real person he is, and if that's the case maybe he does have something to worry about. Don't let his insecurities become your problem. When two people really love each other, they want them to be happy and to lead fulfilling lives. The only wish a request like that fulfills, is his own wish for you to be his alone, it does not fulfill your wishes at all.

It is bad when a person is not secure enough in their self to act that way. Men and women can be friends with out anything going on. I have more friends who are men then women men.