Feelings Of A Mom-To-Be

i have a two year old son. but before we hit the jackpot my wife had a lot of miscarriages. the first time she told me that she was pregnant i was really very happy. it was the perfect time for her to get pregnant. she was so happy and she of course. the first thing we did was went to a doctor and make sure that she is realy pregnant and she was. but there was so many things happened after that so the next time she said she was pregnant it was more fear specially for my wife. but now our child is 2 years old and his picture appears as my avatar. i have sibblings who got pregnant also and of course we are all happy. we are more happy after delivery where you can see how cute and healthy the baby is.

Hi zed_k4! When my sister in law found out she was pregnant, she was so overjoyed. She has that twinkle in her eyes and she looks lovelier each time I see her. She may look a little tired but she is always smiling. She can't contain her joy and we were all happy for her. She is now pregnant with her third child, and her eyes says it all. I do wish, I have experienced it also. Hubby and I have been trying every medical means available but we failed. However, the joy my relatives feel, I feel the same joy for them. Maybe, if a miracle happens one day..I will be the happiest woman ever. Take care and happy mylotting. God bless!

i think being a mothe ra nice experience for all mothers. tahts why she is so haoppy. I do not have this experience but she is baeming for this reason. i have heard its awesome to know a life inside you.

It is something that can't be explained in words, but has to be felt in spirit. I was very happy *and scared* when i found out i was pregnant with my son, and as soon as i heard the little heartbeats i was most definately in love with the little thing growing inside of me. I knew I was in the process of creating another life, and that's just something that's really hard to think about. Me do something THAT BIG? big enough to harbor a tiny little fetus inside my belly for 9 months? To be called mother once he's old enough It was heart wrentching and well a beautiful thought of all things i could ever think of... ... It's almost impossible to say how a woman can feel... It has to be felt in first person.

Well, I hate to tell you this Zed, but there's no way a woman can explain to a man what she feel when she finds that a new life's growing inside her. You see the physical is very closely connected to the emotional and since a man can't have a child growing inside him, it's impossible for him to understand the physical/emotional "glow" it creates in a woman. It is very good to know that you want to some day see that same light in "Her" eyes. When you do, you will have emotions that you just can't imagine until you find out you're going to be a father. Those feelings are every bit as real and as precious as the feelings of the mother-to-be, but quite different. It's not something one person can accurately describe to another.

Er...how to say.you know ,as a one-year-old baby's mother,i think i can share something wiht you.i was excited when i knew i was pregnant ,for i have prepared to have a baby . i was so careful all the pregnant time,and my baby also gave me so many unique and amazing experience which was sweet and difficult to be forgotten,especially his move inside me... ...

Surely it is a great feeling especially when one is having the first baby. It is just so exciting that one give going to bring in a new life in this world. A life which would also signify love between me and my husband. Something which we will find lively and so possesive for both of us. But there is also some fear that do we know how to care. What will happen at the time of delivery. Will it be painful? Will i be able to do it?. The enviournment one gets at home is also a key factor about the feeling one have during such a period.

I don't have any children so I can't say from personal experience but I imagine it is a wonderful feeling, except for the morning sickness, lol. Pregnant women do seem to have a certain glow about them. I would think it would also be a little scary though. Children are an awfully big responsibility.

It is very hard to be able to describe the joy and other feelings when you find out that you are pregnant my friend and with each of my pregnancies they were different! With the first I was overawed and overjoyed, amazed that there was a life growing inside me that would go on to become their own person and make their own contribution to our world! It was scary to think that I was responsible for making sure not only was this new life safe and healthy til it was born but that I would be responsible for their physical, mental, emotional, social and educational welfare and in making sure that I did the best I could to set them on the right road for the rest of their life! With my second it was just as scary as there were 8 years between my children and I had forgotten a lot of the feelings and also because I had to have fertility treatment to conceive this time! I am sure that you will be a wonderful father when the time is right sweety! xxx

I don't think there are any words to describe it. I am a mother of three and those little miracles grew inside of me for 9 whole months each and I helped feed and nourish them and help them grow in that time, awesome experience. I think the very first time you feel the baby move inside you is the most exhiliarating, like oh, oh, oh wow it just moved. Joy, wonder, fear and aprehension too as you want to do all you can for this baby growing inside of you. You feel more of a woman than you have ever felt and the sparkle in the eyes remains throughout the pregnancy even though towards the end you get very tired the eyes still shine. You literally bloom as people say when seeing a pregnant lady. I thank God every day for my children and for allowing me to experience the joy and wonder of becoming a mum-to-be and then a mum. Ellie :D

Hi Zed. Speaking from a mother-hope-to-be someday stand point I think the glow of pregnancy is somewhat like the glow one has when we find that we are in love. I can only guess at the feeling of knowing theres a life growing inside but I think it is an amazing feeling once all is done in love. I remember one of my friends back in college who just had this nice rosy glow throughout her pregnancy. The pride I feel for those I have known who were estatic about their pregnancy is an indication I beleive of how I will feel when that time comes for me. (lol)

Hey, zed. I really don't know how dose it feel because I haven't had a baby yet. But my mum told me that it's also quite difficult to have us. I also ask my dad what's his feeling of that. My dad said he just felt he's going to be a father and that's it.

It is quite amazing. It is also scary. But mostly it is amazing. Of course there are things that happen to your body that are not so pleasant, but I would constantly be touching my belly, when the baby moves it is incredible. In the last couple of months it is really hard because you start to get really anxious about holding your baby.

first off you are adorable the way you express yourself. i love to read your posts. i am a mom and have been for 7 years. it is something i always knew i wanted to be. i love babies and children. my son did not come easily to me but being pregnant with him and knowing he was growing inside me was one of life's miracles. i felt so many different emotions and joy was definitley one of them. i could not wait to meet my little darling and never in my wildest of dreams could i have imagined motherhood to be more wonderful. he has given me so much love and joy that it brings tears to my eyes. i love him more than anything and cannot imagine my life without him, in fact i cannot really remember my life before he was born. i feel like my life really began the day we met. i thought i knew love before i held his sweet little body in my arms but the love i have for him and that he has for me is immeasuralbe and will last beyond this life and this world. i wish everyone could have a son like mine because he is sweet, caring and kind to everyone. when he hugs me and tells me he loves me there is nothing better in this world.

being a mom, i cannot even explain to you what joy i have when i found that im pregnat to my daughter, just a joy that you cannot explain, the angel that with you is a big blessing not a million box., but more than a million bux, being one mom is froud to have thier child & waitng them to hugs & give all the love, that what i feel but i dont have any idea to others.

Childbirth is really nothing more than a concept - until you get pregnant. Then all of a sudden, you realize that a HUMAN BEING, is being nurtured to birth inside of you. A HUMAN BEING! Think about that. Look around you at the people in your life. Think about the fact that before they were born they lived and grew INSIDE their mothers. Life is sacred. We hold the sanctity of the right to live free and safe above all else in our social and judicial systems. To be becoming a mother/father, and realize that one of those lives is INSIDE a mother to be's body and will one day be part of the systems of living that we take for granted, is the most awesome realization in the world. I've tried to answer you zed, from a perspective that you can relate to as a person, rather than from the perspective of my being a mother. That's a WHOLE other response! LOL

I have been pregnant 4 times and it is a very strange feeling when I first found out. I always found out really early too at about 3 weeks. It is like you know, but you do not believe it until you do a test, and even then you do still not believe it until you have been to a doctor and they tell you!! When I had it confirmed it is like excitement and fear all rolled into one, you are excited because you know that you are carrying a life inside you, but you fear that something will go wrong. You want to tell everyone, but at the same time you want to wait until you are past the 3 month mark in case something goes wrong. I also just wanted my bump straight away so that people would know!!

Well, I can't speak as a mother, but as a father, for me the real joy began when I could put my hand on my wife's belly and feel the child move. I was quite the joyful feeling to know that that life within her was a part of you both.

Hello.You someday will marry of course. You and she love each odher in faith so much so you will see the 'light in her eyes'like yourcolleague. If she loves you very much She ready and happy to birth a son. So you will see the light in her eyes when you have the son

I have given birth to 2 beautiful girls. Being pregnant was the happiest time of my life. In the beginning hearing the heartbeat for the first time thats the most amazing. That puts it into prespective and makes it so real, that there really is a life growing in you. The farther along you get, you have ultrasounds were u can actually see the baby in there. And now in some states they have high-tech 3-d ultrasounds were you can actually see the excat formation of the babies face. I knew from 6 months that my second child was going to look identical to my first and she did. It is the most amazing undescribable feeling having that life inside you. It makes you feel like the most special person in the world. It brings out a whole side of you some never knew they had. From the time I found out I was pregnant I became more cautious of everything, because you want nothing more then to bring the baby to healthy and full term. It is very hard to explain the feeling. As for giving birth. Man say they could do it, no you couldn't. It is the hardest thing in the world, but what the outcome is so worth all the pain. When they put my first daughter in my arms, I felt the most overwelming feeling of love I've ever felt in my life. It was an instant amazing bond, one that's never left. It's awesome that you wish that for your relationship someday. When the time comes you will understand. My boyfriend didn't want to be in the delivery room, said it till the day the baby was born, but I was in labor with my second for 23 hours and he was right there by my side, and he has told me that it changes you seeing a baby born. He has alot more respect and compassion for me seeing what I have gone through bringing 2 children into this world.