Especially for guys...
By yona06
@yona06 (585)
Indonesia
May 12, 2008 3:08am CST
I had an interesting conversation with a male colleague the other day about how woman dress up nowadays, with heavy makeup and flashy-tight-low cut outfits I'd never dare wear.
He said that girls that wear heavy make-up and sexy outfits are only good to look at and fun for a few flings, but nothing more. The first thing that comes into his mind when he sees a girl like that is "an easy tramp" (no intentions in being rude). Another guy friend I have, on the other hand always goes crazy when he sees that type of girl because she's "flashy" (don't know what that means, though). That's interesting I thought, because some of my friends feel like they have to dress like that to be attractive.
So, I'd like to ask all the other men out there. What comes into your mind (by that I mean what impression you get) when you see a pretty woman but with really heavy makeup, extremely tight, low cut shirt and high end skirt? Are you thinking trampy? classy? flashy? good? bad? or what?
It would be nice to get a woman's opinion too. I personally don't feel comfortable with makeup and sexy outfits that expose too much skin. I prefer loose-fit clothes with minimum exposure and no make up at all.
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5 responses
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
12 May 08
Gals with heavy make up will definitely be trampy, to me.. Because u just wanna grab attention and has got the wrong idea of putting make up.. It's a huge turn off for me too.. For those with extremely tight, low cut shirt and high end skirts, i will think they are flashy.. They are confident of their own body, which i think it's good.. hehe ^_^ BUt there's just a fine line between sexy and tramp though.. Depending how u bring yourself out to others is the most important.. U can dress like a tramp, but just dun act like one and that will be fine ^_^
Being natural is a form of sexy too ^_^
@yona06 (585)
• Indonesia
13 May 08
you don't care too much for make up, but you like woman in tight outfits. Interesting.... I'd have to agree when you say that it depends on how a woman acts. A woman can dress up conservatively but still act like a b*tch and I think that's worse than dressing up like one but still have dignity.
So how would you describe a sexy (in an attractive way) woman?
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
13 May 08
A sexy woman may not be someone who dress up as little as as possible.. But rather, i think a woman who knows how to give ple the msyterious feeling is sexy.. Just like, a woman wearing loose clothing or maybe long skirts, they know they wun be exposed but their actions show that they wanna show more, but at the same time, they dun wanna show too much.. To me, this kind of thrill is a form of sexy to me.. haha
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
13 May 08
Yona, I don’t go for make-up and gaudy dresses too. I would not say I dislike them completely, but I firmly believe that our make-up and dress should be an extension of our inner selves. The way we were brought up by our family, the way we like to project ourselves and our confidence in ourselves. If some lady is comfortable in low-cut jeans and tight tops, then she can of course wear it, but before that she should take a look at herself in the mirror. Not all figures are ideal for such exposing clothes. And then there is the very important issue of innerwear. We buy expensive clothes but very few of us invest in quality innerwear. A good quality and properly fitting innerwear can make even the most damningly exposing top look very sober. Very frankly some girls and women look so awkward in tight clothes that it is an embarrassment to us ladies in the public. Looking beautiful and sexy and dressing just like all the other girls are dressing, are two very different things. The dress should increase our overall grace and not make us a laughing stock of others.
@asawako48162 (3321)
• United States
13 May 08
I was raised to avoid the trampy women and pick a women who is more conservative.
My wife of almost 23 years is from the Philippines and has never dressed like you describe. Yes, you are not wrong in saying this about a loose women.
Women are to wear a skirt that is not to long or too short..like a good sentence ..in grammar..it should be long enough to cover the subject but short enough to make it interesting..
I have a 37 year old daughter and a 36 year old son and both of them have always dressed in good taste..but their mother..my first wife was a loose women and that is why i divorced her..and remarried when i was older but wiser..i was 40 and my fill of loose women with no morals..but thanks for the nice post..
@frontier2002 (630)
• Malaysia
23 May 08
I was consider myself very shallow minded in the past because i thoughts that those girls who wear like are all cheap just for fun. Today i open my mind actually they just want to be look good. As a human being we all have that kind of thoughts in our mind and it will never goes off. So now i understand and start to appreciate differences in everyone whatever they want to wear it's what they are brought up with. The environment and influence affect their mindset and attitudes which cause them to wear like that. And of course the attention is part of human nature where every person will use whatever means to attract attention for example using their intelligence, humor, sexiness, etc.
So actually it's more beautiful to see all kind of differences that human mind have brought up to this world. And in fact part of the beauty in social life. If everybody all not wearing that kind of outfit there won't be anything to judge on.
And the fact that flashy, low-cut outfit really is very attractive to man like myself ;). He he i love it ladies who open up like that even i won't screw them as i like but i respect their way of dressing.
@djedtek (230)
• United States
12 May 08
yep that is true, you can tell from a mile away from the smell type of perfume (because girl share their cheap body sprays) what type of make up and what they wear.im sorry but i like a conservative girl not one where i can get a review by my best friend!
that's an interesting way to put it. thanks for your response.